This is tricky, because I'm trying to think of how I would react as that girl - depending on the guy I would either be creeped out or think it's cute lol. I actually had a guy come up to me once at a restaurant and he gave me a slip of paper that said "I think you're so beautiful and would love to take you out on a date some time" - kind of cheesy but I just thought it was cute, the fact that he didn't yell something obscene at me like all the other guys downtown and actually went about it in a respectful way. He wasn't my type but I decided to give him a chance anyway because from that little act I could tell he was a nice guy. We went on a date and it was good although it didn't lead anywhere. What I'm trying to say is there IS a chance! You say that you think she likes you - if you have that intuition, I would say go for it - maybe she wants to get to know you too. However, be prepared for a rejection and don't take it too seriously if it's a no... you have to realize that in most cases girls might think it's weird if some random guy they don't know asks them out... good luck though! you've got nothing to lose :)
It all depends on the situation, if it's someone right off the street then there is a high chance of rejection, but not completely hopeless, you'd have to engage in conversation first so she could get a feel of what you are like.
Now if y'all are regulars, like classmates, then there is an even better chance of not being rejected, next time you have a conversation talk her up, make her laugh, find a common, then towards the end when she is finished laughing or talking (avoid the awkward silence!) ask her to have a coffee with you or something casual, since you guys barely know each other I think something intimate like a flick or a restaurant may be a bit much.
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Hmm, well I can be kind of paranoid and guarded, so I would probably brush you off. However, the point of dating is to get to know one another, therefore, you two could possibly meet mutually somewhere for your date, to break the ice first? That would diffuse the uneasiness about going out with a total stranger. Safety always comes first. So, ask her out, and discuss possibly meeting at a movie or restaurant or whathave you, and take it from there, and If things proceeding should progress well, then you can gradually take things to the next step: going to pick her up. Good luck, Happy Memorial Day! Thanks!
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Hmm, I am in the same shoes as you bro. I don't think she have realized that I have a crush on her to like me at all, but I would like to know her better. I thought of asking her out for a coffee or lunch to get known each other better.
Until now I have been thinking of asking her out for a date, but I guess that would be too much for her and it would definitely freak her out. With that it makes it makes more possible to get rejection.
Anyways, for you the situation is another matter. If you think she likes you, then yes definitely ask her out on a date. There is no problem with that, but I still would be careful. You never know how she actually feels. The most secure way is to ask her out for a coffee or a lunch and if she ask if it's a date, say yes. She will think you as a friend if you don't.
People do it everyday!..that's why its called dating..you date to get to know someone.
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I would, but to a public place, even though I have gone over to the house of someone I did not know personally, but mutually, that was because I was in high school and was down for anything. I think she will either say yes or that she wants to be friends. If the word date freaks you out, ask her if she just wants to hang out, and when you do, if she seems like she's into you, then you should ask her on a date once you are finished hanging out
I'm so in that situation right now! I feel really attracted to this guy I barely know (only spoken 2 times too!) and I really like him.
If he asked me out I'd be more then thrilled!
So yes, big yes, definitely!
If a guy I'd only talked to twice asked me out I don't know how I'd feel about that. I'd prefer that he start making conversation with me and build a rapport first before he just randomly asks me out.
Uhh, yeah. How else do we go on dates? If the guy is confident enough to ask that's definite bonus points for us girls.
I think you should go for it. if she doesn't and only likes you as a friend, at least you can say you tried, right?
good luck.
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I would. If she does like you as a potential boyfriend then she'd say yes so she could get to know you better.
Yes, definately.
There's nothing to loose and if you don't ask, you'll never know.
Of course how else can you get to know someone.
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