What is the best thing to do after you break up with your Boyfriend/Girlfriend?
Well I broke up with my Boyfriend the other day and I wanted to know if talking to him and stuff was ok. This could be like any way of contacting them.
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Go cold turkey and stop talking to him for at least a few weeks. Saying hi at school is fine, but no texting, no calling, nothing. It sounds like you may have dumped him, so for his sake (and yours) spare him the teasing that comes with contacting him. And if he dumped you and is still trying to contact you, tell him nicely that he hurt you and you need space to move on.
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Depends a lot on how long you were together, what kind of feelings there are for both of you, etc.
If it was a short relationship, without much emotional interference, then sure; keep talking to him, but don't lead him on.
If it was longer, or either of you said the L word, I would completely alienate him, for the time being. If he's still pining for you, that's the nicest thing you can do for him, in the long run.
The best thing to do is to just move on. It can be hard sometimes because you feel bad after doing it. Try just being friends with him sometimes they might not want to be friends because they are mad that you dumped them. Usually when they still have feelings for you even after you dumped they will go ahead and be friends to be as close as they can to you and hope that one day you guys may come back together.