Is it wrong that I'm attracted to a married man?
why am I attracted to a married man? I am way more attractive than he is and probably can get any guy I Want, but why do I find myself attracted to him?
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What Guys Said 3
May be you want to gauge if you're attractive enough to appeal to him though he's married?
Some girls do that unconsciously, they want some proof that they are very attractive so they enjoy testing their attractiveness on a married average looking guy.
Basically, they are after an ego rush and confirmation about how attractive they are. If that average looking guy wasn't married you probably would not even see him. It seems right now you lust for him because he should be unaccessible to you, unless you are so attractive that he can't resist being attracted to you in spite of already being married.
So my guess is you look unconsciously for a validation that you are as attractive as you think you are.
What Girls Said 8
My friend keeps on getting attracted to married/committed guys too. I think it might be because that they are married, it subconsciously shows that they are wiling to commit to one person (which is pretty hard to find these days).
Plus I think it could also be a result of the idea of forebidden fruit, wanting something you're not suppose to have. I think this is true of my friend because when the married guy wants to take it further and have an affair with her (the little charmers!) she doesn't.
I don't understand her and she hasn't come up with the forebidden fruit idea or any of the above, this is just my conclusions from being an unbiased observer.
It's not wrong to be attracted to someone. You probably know the reasons why you are attracted to him, forbidden fruit, he makes you feel good, enjoy the attention, he might remind you of a man that has been in your life, etc..? Find yourself a single guy don't waste your time with him.There's an article on my page read it not for the light hearted!
Yes it's wrong you are attracted to him ,okay but what's next?
-are you going to date him,what about his wife,how would you feel if you were at her place,what if he has children ?You are gonna ruin his life, his wife's life and even his children if he has.That's selfishness.
-are you going to hide your feelings ,feel pain and leave him .Are you trying to kill yourself?
*both options are unacceptable that's why it's wrong ,please stop thinking of him ,don't ruin his marriage.
PS: if he left his wife for you then he would probably leave you for another woman so it's better for you and his wife to stop thinking of him.
First of all I don't think you could compare yourself to the opposite gender based on looks. Its best that you don't let yourself be attracted to a married man because he is "married" and you should keep out of a married mans life.
You are probably attracted to him, I don't because his personality may stand out compared to all of the other guys you know.
Sorry ha ha my advice isn't helpful. Just don't get involved and possibly ruin a marriage, it is wrong and I believe in Karma so you never know.