I want to ask my car sales lady out on a date but don't know how to go about it?

[Anonymous]

I just purchased a new car from a car sales lady whom I was very attracted to. I am going to pick up my car from the dealership tomorrow and I really want to ask this woman out on a date. I'm not the best at asking girls out and I don't know how to go about it. I don't know if it would be a sleazy thing to ask out your car sales lady on a date? And how do I ask her or what do I say to make it sound a little more casual? I feel if I don't ask here I will regret it. What should I do?

[Dollface-86]

When you see her just make small talk. "hey how are you, how was your week?" If you know of a nice restaurant (not 5 star nice, but casual, comfortable, possibly outside if the weather is good, assuming she likes that type of thing) tell her you'd like to take her to lunch this weekend if she's available.. If you don't know of a good place then look for one of google or something. be casual, smile, and be relaxed. Breathe deep if you must. Lol. The point is to take her out to a nice casual little spot to get to know her. You don't know anything about each other yet so don't lead with romance too much. It may freak her out. Just let her get to knw the real you. If it works out upgrade to dinner or something. You'll get too know each other at lunch so you'll know what to do for the second date. And when your date os over make sure you schedule another one right there. That way there isn't this weird "to call or not to call 3 day waiting period" bullcrap.

[Tamikaze]

It's not like she is a doctor or business professional who has a conflict of interest in dating her clients, so there is nothing sleazy about it.

So, the only thing I would consider is making sure you have a moment with her without other people around (like don't do it in the sales office with the person sitting at the desk who just calculated your monthly payments). Other than that, keep it short and simple and ask her out for coffee or a drink or whatever other plan you had. Have a day in mind so that if she says yes, you will then followup with "What about this Sunday" (pick a date that is 3 days away but not more than a week). Then ask for her number and call her the next day to firm up where you will meet and just overall show your continued interest in meeting her.

Keep it short and simple, but nice, and see what happens.

[Anonymous]

You could try flirting and asking for her card. Then call her up and ask her for a date later?

[Shaun]

lol she doesn't like you, she was selling a car.