The guys are right, it's not bad at all.
I started flirting about a week after my last relationship ended and I started a new relationship about two or three weeks later. Mind you I love this kid and we're still together today (going on one year in a few days). So it clearly wasn't a rebound. Just don't get into serious flirting/expressing interest unless you're ready to start a new relationship.
You may feel like you want to but really make sure you're ready because it's not fair to date him then throw him away just because now you realize you just wanted someone to ease the transition into single life.
I dated my ex for about a year and three months and we were really serious. But after we broke up I just... The feelings just left. I was hurt, I cried, all that kind of stuff- I also got pissed when he was saying he loved some other chick and dating her two days after he broke it off with me- but I got over it. Each of us takes different amounts of time to get over and recover from a previous relationship. When you're okay on your own feet again and you can come to terms with the past relationship and talk about it easily and see the good and the bad then you're ready for your next relationship. Until then just stick with friends.
But no, flirting isn't bad, so long as he knows it's just that.
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You do what's best for you. It seems your ex and you have both moved on. So why not? You are in luck, another guy is heading your way. But make sure you tell him you are over your ex, if you are. But tell him the truth if you are not over him.
flirting happens all the time, in relationships, outside of relationships, all the time you see it everywhere
so no this isn't bad, its boosting your confidence.
BUT, you need to really think where your head is...i mean are you using this guy to make yourself feel OK after the break up - aka a rebound...or can you see yourself potentially being with this guy? if you can't then you shouldn't take it much further than flirting...afterall you're still getting over a break up, you can't be over your ex that fast
give it time, take it slow, don't rush!
It does not make you a bad person, for flirting with someone right after you broke up. Just make sure it is not a rebound thing, or else you and this new guy could get hurt. Also the break up could have been long over due. That might be why you are getting over your ex so fast.
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