This might get a little confusing, but I will try my best. Currently, I'm separated from my husband, who lives in another state, and he constantly... Show More
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I first considered telling you "think about it and decide what you want", but then I read the bit about the furniture and realized this is over, over, over.
Make the break as clean as possible. That means getting your things without bothering to snoop. It means not caring, much less discussing, whether he's cheating or not. In fact, that's not your problem anymore. He's going to be your ex soon enough anyway. Let him go.
It also means to stop answering his calls, and communicating with him through your divorce attorney. Not only is this just good practice, but it'll make it easier to create the distance you need to get on with your life.
This isn't a sound marriage, and hasn't been for some time. You know this. He's not changing, trying to make it better, investing in it. If anything, he's doing the opposite. There is nothing whatever to be gained in prolonging this, no getting better. End it now.
I am sorry.