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But from my experiences, most girls who give me mixed signals have ended up just being moodswingers.
One day, she's giving me signals that she likes me. Acting nice, playful, and happy speaking to me. I take it that she's in a good mood and it just got better because this attractive guy (myself) is giving her some attention.
Next day, she's cold and distant. Ignoring me. Hmm ... why? Oh, because she's having a bad day. In a foul mood, and therefore, acting shy, distant, and perhaps on the verge of blowing her volcano head to bits.
I'm sure you've done the same to girls without knowing it. You were happy one day and you talked to your friends, or said 'hi' to girls in passing. But another day, it was horrible. You felt like complete sh*t and you didn't want to talk. You just wanted things to get better. So every girl on that bad day, who wanted to get your attention, became intimidated since you put up that 'don't talk to me' shield.
So what can you do about this?
DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT. Stay optimistic and take the opportunity when you feel it.
I have a similar problem! She knows how i feel, tells me she's into me too but scared she can't give me what i'm looking for. So, i did what any logical person would do - I said ok, thanks for being honest, I'll back off a bit... she replies cool, can i come over tonight. The night involved many conversations about are we friends or more than and you know what, sometimes girls just can't decide just like guys often can't. Just be patient. Make your intentions clear and then leave it be for a bit. As she digests your feelings over the coming days/months or even years, she'll either want you or she won't and that just means you'll find the right person somewhere else.
To be honest, coming from a girl, mixed signals go both ways. By this I mean that if you feel you are receiving them then she is unsure also and is giving them according to mood. It could depend on many different variables, either she is going through stuff, she is really into you and isn't sure what she thinks about it yet, or likes playing hard to get. My advice is that if you are unsure about her feelings ask her what's going on, if that is too up front play a classic game of truth and dare, only no daring allowed. Rules are you ask a question, she answers, then can ask the same question to you but if she does then she has to ask a new one after. Start off with simple ones then get into it. Good Luck
I couldn't possibly answer without more detail . If you ask a "general" question you can only hope for "general" answers. If you give us more detail perhaps people will recognise some behavior and actually be able to give you a bit of insight into what is actually happening :D
Maybe she's insecure of herself. She's worried that you will reject her. Simple answer for a Simple question. :D
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You need to make the signals clear. For example a favorite that girls like to do is say something like "I'd really like to hang out with you" but when you ask them out for a specific date they are always busy, and they say something like "I'd love to go to place A sometimes, but I have lots of work to do"
What you do in those situations is not take a vague answer from her, say something like "Look, is being with me something that you can take it or leave it, or is it something you are smart enough to realize you really want to do?"
That should clear up any mixed signals, she'll either come out and say I really want to be with you or let you know that she doesn't, in which case she probably didn't like you anyway, probably had you as a back up for another guy, who knows, but you are better off.
could you be more specific?
Its good to think of mixed signals as a test. As in, if you get insecure and start to worry if she REALLY likes you or not, then you fail. If your confident and relaxed about it things will probably get better.
Girls are idiots, so you need to stop treating her like a human being. That being said, I highly recommend ignoring her for a little while and show interest in other chicks. You may think that will make you lose her, but au contraire my friend, it will make her want to swallow your load in no time.
Could mean many things, trying to figure a woman's logical thought process out behind a question is a waste of time imo
just put her on the spot, say something like "hey, just let me know, is being with me something that you can take it or leave it or is it something that you really want to do?"
If it's something she really want's to do she should make a solid date with you
It means she's not sure she likes you. If you like her find a way to let her know you better so she makes up her mind and show her you like her without playing the psycho or stoker. If she were playing hard to get, you would know...
When I give "mixed signals" its usually because I like you enough to not want to hurt your feelings, but not enough to date you.
ive had girls be sexually attracted to me but who did not want a relationship or were unsure about my feelings towards them...they sent mixed signals like crazy...you get better at understanding these things with experience
Maybe she's trying to play hard to get or maybe she's just enjoying the attention and keeps you interested but at the same time doesn't let it go too far by giving you mixed signals. If it's the second, fyl.
Mixed signal simply means that the person is confused about you.They have some attraction for you but then they are holding it back for some reason.
what kind of mixed signals are you talking about. because it could be that she's too worried about moving to fast for you and being to forward so she will throw something at you that may make you think she is sending mixed signals, but it is more as a way to cover up what she really is feeling
Can you tell me what she's doing. We usually mirror what you're doing to us tbh so if you think she's giving mixed signals maybe you are too. Her behavior might not even reflect on you, she might be dealing with something else.
Well, no one will be really flirty ALL the time. There's a time for that and a time for dealing with the rest of life. It depends on the circumstances.
Depends on the signals she is giving...and also...some girls may give mixed signals...if they are confused of something with you...idk...you need to elaborate.
maybe she's unaware that she is giving you these mixed signals
Sometimes I give mixed signals (I don't mean to) because I start to really like a guy and I become very self-conscious of myself :S
Call her out on the mixed signals. Who has time for games?
Either she doesn't like you or is confused one or the other pick one
please tell us what you mean by "mixed signals." tell us exactly what she did
she is prob just sexually attracted to you or something --- or she is unsure how she feels bout u
A few options
1. you're not reading the signs right
2. she's not interested
3. she's playing hard to get
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