I'd say it depends on how close/intimate etc you guys already are, as well as the setting. If you're both clicking well even the first date could be technically seen as 'ok'.
There's no real requirement time-frame for these kind of things (whether its first kiss, cuddling, staying over night, etc.) It's more about what level of comfort and closeness the two of you have developed.
For instance if a guy were to try and cuddle with a girl but they hadn't even broken the hugging/holding hands barrier it might not go to well.
As to the second part of your question: No cuddling does not have to lead to sex. Depending on how hot things are getting otherwise (kissing, touching, etc) will, from the guy's perspective, note how ready/desiring you are of more.
Go ahead and cuddle while watching the movie, and remember that you don't have to do anything you aren't ready for. Make sure he respects your boundaries by letting him know if he's moving too fast.
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As said, there is no real timeframe. It needs to be when you're both comfortable with each other enough for it to happen.
It doesn't have to be a sexual thing, and you can cuddle just for the feeling of closeness and security it can bring. If you don't want things to escalate, you need to make it clear to your boyfriend what you're feeling, so that he's clear that you're not giving him the go ahead for something more.
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