I haven't had a girlfriend in almost two years. It makes me feel like a looser, and completely undesirable. Whenever I see a pretty girl, either on tv, or in real life, it's like a trigger is set off and I feel depressed, angry, and upset...it's runining my life. Can anyone relate, or have advice?
Being pretty does not make you beautiful. There are a lot of girls with pretty faces who...
- have terrible relationship skills
- lack true depth
- lack intelligence
- are selfish
- believe that they have to be a b*tch to get what they want
- they manipulate guys for whatever they can get
- they have daddy issues
- they are trying to compensate for something that is lacking within by buying overpriced clothes, shoes, purses
- they don't think they're pretty so they pile on a tone of make-up
Pretty faces don't guarantee quantity. So don't feel bad. Just because a girl is pretty doesn't mean she is true girlfriend and wife material. Don't be fooled by a "gilded butterfly".
"We will all laugh at gilded butterflies" - Shakespeare
Gilded means to be painted with a thin layer of gold. A lot of girls are gilded butterflies. They use make-up, clothes, jewlery, status, and all of these different illusions to appear beautiful. But butterflies don't need gold paint because they're naturally beautiful
Yeah I feel sad, those beautiful people are such douche bags, I like average guys but get rejected because they try to be with a beautiful person and then they end up hurt. Life is unfair and imperfect, but then I don't think the world would be great if everything is good.
i kno wht you mean cute guys gt me mad wen I see them with a pretty lady instead of me. but I overcome it by thinkin bout my dream mans beauty within. his personality. wen I see a guy I try to think who could he really b instead of a pretty face. then I go on daydreamin lol bt try out online dating there are thousands of pretty girls w great beauty within also waitin for =) and instead of getting yourself beat down think about the plus side the good side of things how? by creatin your dream girl and don't give up finding her because a pretty lady doesn't mean anything only whts within
It's eerie how much you sound like me. I totally can relate to this. I've got it even worse though, because (a) I haven't had a girlfriend in...well, EVER; and (b) it's not just pretty girls -- whenever I see a happy-looking couple, I get depressed and jealous.