Why do guys lead me on then just stop? Am I doing something wrong?

I am so frustrated! I have never had a boyfriend, but attractive guys flirt with me once or twice, then just stop. These guys aren't flirts either. A little while ago this really hot guy went out of his way and started flirting with me. We got along and my friends were green with envy. I waited a couple classes then started flirting with him and he didn't respond. Recently this other guy kept giving me looks in class and smiling at me. I started smiling back, but couple days later he just stopped. He won't even looks in my direction, and when he sees me looking at him he just looks away. That kind of thing happens all of the time and I just don't get it! I really want a boyfriend but I don't know what I am doing wrong. I have wanted one for so long but nothing has worked. Why do they do this? What should I do?

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  • you are probobly sending off an I'm annoyed vinbe without even realizing it. shyness is almost always mistaken for you being annoyed by the guy. as soon as the guy thinks your annoyed he will stop trying. now I know you arnt thinking this but that doesn't mean you don't come off that way to guys. look at how many girls on this site want boyfriends but until I came on here it seemed women were not interested in men. they never talk about this stuff withen hearing distance of a man. so we have no idea your into us. let the guy know you like him. say I would like to do something with you john. big turn on. girls have to let guys know. if I hadnt read these posts I would have beleived women were no longer into guys.

    • I can understand that but I was flirting back. Does that change ur prespective at all?