u One of my coworkers at my last job talked how sometimes when he approaches a woman, he gets shut down because she automatically assumes he's just looking to get laid, which he is not. I've known other guys who have had similar results. And these aren't sleazy nerds, either. These are confident, athletic, competent, good guys.
BUT by the same token, there are the usual other reasons. I'm guilty of this one myself, but a lot of times when I see a beautiful girl, I think "she is way too cute to be single". There is also the fear of rejection. I've known guys who think that the more physically beautiful girls are either really stuck-up or that they will cheat (see Twincapersred's answer). Does that excuse a guy from not asking a girl out or even just saying "hi"? No. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Other guys, though, just aren't good at approaching. Again, not an excuse as that is something that comes with practice. Some guys are also naturally more reserved and need to get comfortable around a girl they like first before asking her out.
its not good to think this but whenever I see a really hot beautiful girl, I immediately think she's taken. like someone expressed before, why would someone that good looking NOT be in a relationship with someone. ya know, they are attractive and they should have already attracted someone. plus I also think because they are so good looking, they would immediately want someone way more attractive looking than myself. besides looks, sometimes I think I am probably not their personality type, and it's bad to think that without even knowing them, LOL. I also take into account the amount of guys that probably approached her. probably everyday, guys hit on her. I would just be another number of failed guys with no game, hahahaha. :)
while on the flip side if I see a girl that I am not attracted to, then I think they are single. probably has trouble attracting guys and most likely doesn't get approached by guys at all. :(
I think that sometimes girls who think they are ugly are more eager to get a boyfriend. Sometimes it's because they want a guy to validate their worth, they want to prove their beauty somehow, like most girls they feel like they're supposed to, or they simply just met a guy they liked and didn't let an opportunity pass them by! :)
More attractive girls and girls who are considered beautiful really just are exposed to more reasons to be disappointed and frustrated with guys. For some of them, I think it gets to their head and causes them to be unrealistically picky. So they stay single waiting around for Mr. Perfect because they feel they deserve Mr. Perfect and nothing less! For others, they just get fed up with the reality that a lot of guys genuinely suck and they'd rather be single. It's quality, not quantity :)
When I first met my guy, he told me later that he was happy to find that I had a personality and was interesting to talk to. Lol. My looks brought him in, but my personality kept him.
As for your question, I would get approached by guys at clubs, but that was because they were basically approaching every girl and most just wanted to get laid. Drinking also helps I'm sure. In the non-club environment, I would see guys check me out, but rarely would a guy approach me.
This is quite true as most guys see beautiful women purely as a sex object and don't even take the possibility that she could have an awesome personality into account.
I was asked the other day if I had a boyfriend
I said no
The man then went on to explain why it was good that I wasn't attached
Because
I'm too hot for just one man to get to f***
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Nah, it's not true at all.
It's just that you're conditioned to expect ugly girls to be single and hot girls to have (similarly hot) boyfriends, so you only notice it when that's not the case - like when you see a really ugly girl with a boyfriend, or a really hot girl either without a boyfriend or with a boyfriend who's far less attractive than she is.
If anything, it's the plain / average girls who have the advantage, in that they're neither repulsive nor intimidating / unapproachable.
because pretty girls rely on their looks too much and that can be a turn off for guys or make them seem unapproachable. "ugly" girls try harder to have a nice personality and be more outgoing, it sort of works in their favor and guys aren't as intimidated by them.
Beautiful girls get approached more in quality it's just always either creepy, sleazy, or lovestrucky.
Average girls get better quality in their approaches.
“ugly” (what is ugly)...girls always have boyfriends because men know that ugly girls do more sexually and non. This is true because have to evolve and obtain other character traits that make them, not just as pretty, but just as desirable, as us goddesses. :) most pretty women, excluding myself, have a reputation of being ignorant, demandin, needy, rude, spoiled, etc.
Don't worry about this. Guys who looks for beauty and sex will look for beautiful girls. Those who looks for character sure will look for girls who are even ugly. But such guys are hard to find and rare to get. Even my girlfriend doesn't look beautiful but she worths more than anything. Just like that. Don't be worried.
Lol this doesn't really answer your question. I just can't get over how everyone seems to think there are ugly girls out there. Every one is beautiful in their own way :)
pretty girls have more options than ugly ones, so they don't take the first guy that approach them...
Pretty girls also intimidate sometimes, so guys: a) assume the are taken
b)are afraid of rejection
"I always see very beautiful and attractive girls who are single or even never had a bf!"
Is it because guys aren't approaching them, or is it because these girls are shooting down the guys that ARE approaching them?
In my case, all my guy friends pick ugly girls because they've had bad experiences with beautiful girls. They think that just because once they were cheated on by a beautiful girl or had their heart broken by a beautiful girl, all other ones are the same, which totally isn't true. Guys just sometimes don't think things through.
Or they figure the attractive girl is already taken and don't approach them to begin with.
I approach attractive girls over ugly girls. However, lately I been getting rejected a lot. I'm going to change strategy and approach ugly girls now.
i have being called beautiful/gorgeous/stunning etc..and it is true I don't get approached as often as the average girl would and it honestly sucks cause when I do get approached is usually by some creeper or sleazy dudes.
Because most of them are cowards to talk to a beautiful girl for fear of being rejected. And they go with the ugly girl instead. Kinda sad.
I don't get it either. I mean, I understand their reasons why, but still :\ that's just unfair. So what now? Do I just make myself look unattractive to make guys approach me? =_= eesh.
in my country, yes it is true..beautiful girls always have boyfriend..
I have noticed this too!
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