How to initiate hand holding?

So, if you can't tell from the question, I am a total newbie to the romantic scene and am in dire need of advice as to how to slyly get my hand from point A) my side, to point B) inside of my crush's hand on our next date. What are some ways to slowly lead to this? Some more forward ones? He and I joke-flirt all the time and he's usually the more touchy-feely one. Thanks for the advice! :) It is much appreciated.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • One way is just to grab his/her hand , if you want to make a joke out of it you can say some thing like just wanted to see how it would feel to hold your hand now let go, with a smile. don't be mean about it .. Or when your both walking side by side you can get close to him/her and kind of rub your hand on his like you bumped in to him his response should be to hold your hand . Or you can look at him/her and ask to see who has the bigest hands and when you put your hands together just turn around and walk away with his/her hand in yours

  • I have the perfect method for a girl to initiate hand holding :D

    Lets say you are walking along with a group of friends, the guy you like is among them, get a friend to jump out from behind a tree or something, act scared and grab his arm, then just don't let go :3

    Even if it's blatantly obvious that you set it up, any decent guy will appreciate the sentiment, I would :P

Most Helpful Girls

  • Lol I agree with Hercules. This doesn't have to be complicated at all. For example what I do if I'm not sure if the guy would mind holding hands with me or not is that when we are casually walking, I'll just casually hook my arm around his, and if he doesn't tense up or seem uncomfortable then you could sort of slide your hand down his arm until you meet his hand after a little while (sorry run-on sentence lol). That's only with a guy that I am romantically attracted to, and that he is attracted to me.

  • well hand holding usually happends when you touch his arm or hand and just to hold him hand.if he's more touchy feeling then he will usually try to tickly you and you can try to hold his hand to stop him.idk it works for me my boyfriend always trys to tickle me lol

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  • Secretly wipe your hands off first. Nobody like sweaty palm.

  • When you two are happily walking and talking somewhere, just slide your hand onto his, I don't think it has to be some big o'l complicated thing.

  • Like a ninja. Or as Nike says "Just do it"