Girl I keep seeing on my college campus, what should I say??

[Konpachi]

Alright guys I need some help here, I keep seeing this really cute girl on my campus but she's not in any of my classes or anything, I just think she's really beautiful and would like to get to know her.

So how do approach her without it seeming awkward?

Updates

+1 y

Well guys I was walking through the quad today and who should I see... I said to myself, there is no way I'm letting this opportunity pass me up again. So after a short talk, I'm supposed to be seeing her again this coming Tuesday ^_^


Thanks guys.

[InquisitiveMale]

Say hi and smile a couple times while walking past her randomly in the hallways. Once you think she remembers your face and you're no longer a complete stranger, say your regular hi and smile, then add your name with an extended hand as an open invitation for her to tell you hers.

If she gives you her name, ask her if she wants to go and get some coffee. Coffee being the perfect introduction date for a number of reasons...

1. It's cheap and doesn't brake the bank. Especially good for girls you're unsure about and who are unsure about you.

2. It keeps it short. If you're going for coffee you're not going to be spending hours on end searching for conversation topics and it keeps the awkwardness to a minimum.

3. It's coffee... it's not nearly as intimidating as asking a girl out to dinner & a movie.

[Anonymous]

walk up to her and say, hey, how's it going. I've been seeing you around campus a lot lately, maybe our schedules are similar. I just wanted to introduce myself. my name is _______

[InquisitiveMale]

oh and we can be the best of friends too! lame... no offense.

Always get the message across you're looking for more then just a friendship otherwise that's all you will ever get. Where in that little introduction of yours does he state what he wants from her?

[Opinion Owner]

he's not going to give a speech the first time he meets her listing all his intentions. (who does that?!) this is a CONVERSATION. indicating both the girl and the QA will talk. She''ll continue to introduce herself after he does. and then he can make small talk and ask her out

[Opinion Owner]

PS If you come up to me and go "hey, you're hot, lets go out", I'm going to turn around and run away.

[collegegrl18]

WTF inquistive lol I mean wtf is he supposed to say "hi I think your hot let's get drinks together and afterwords go back to my place" I mean seriously lol. All guys should want to start as friends a lot of good relationships start as friendships so why shouldn't he just be kind to her and introduce himself. You shouldn't be too forward with her, introduce yourself, ask her to hang out with you sometime or if there is a party coming up tell her a bunch of your friends are going & if she could come

[InquisitiveMale]

Starting a friendship first considering the fact that for us it's a game of numbers... will get you no where fast.

You start 25 friendships and maybe you get 1... now out of 25 relationships maybe 1 is worth maintaining...

The best advice a guy can have is never take advice on women from women. Guys know numbers, women know individuals.

I meet a couple dozen girls a week. You bet your ass I'm going to skip allot of the niceties. I don't have time to carefully examine each.