I don't like when things end on a bad note so this is what I was going to text him. What would you think?

[Anonymous]

Long story short, I met this guy in the middle of June at my orientation for school and I added him on Facebook because I thought he was cute but he was the one started to message me and told me to text him. So we texted over the whole summer and he would always tell me things like "I can't wait to see you at school", "hey cutie", and "we are definitely hanging out once we get to school." He would always say stuff like that do me and even though he never came out and said it I got the feeling that he liked me. Well we moved into school about three weeks ago and everything changed. We saw each other the first night because he was super anxious to see me because he kept telling me that he wanted to see me and that I should come see him real fast. Well the next couple days after that he would text me but not respond back and I was just like OK... but one day I was super annoyed so I texted him this long message saying that we needed to be friends like normal people and he could text me when he knew what he wanted from me. Well I saw him later that night and he was waving at me and yelling my name which confused the crap out of me but I was just like whatever. Well that first week was the last time I talked to him and even seen him. I don't see him around campus AT ALL which is kind of weird but oh well.

But these last couple days I have been thinking that I want to text him and just kind of be done with the whole situation. I don't like when things end on a bad note so this is what I was going to text him "I know you're not going to text me back and that's fine but us talking was completely pointless and I hate to say it, but a waste of my time. It is my fault that I was stupid enough to believe anything that you said but I like to think there are guys out there that aren't jerks but I have yet to meet one. I have way bigger things to worry about now besides this whole stupid thing but yeah good luck with school and you don't have to worry about hearing from me again."

I have it all texted out but I don't know if I should sent it. What would you guys think if you got that message or what else should I say so that he knows I would be willing to maybe talk again later down the road?

Any other thoughts?

[thekhaz]

dont bother don't give him the time of your day. Txting him only makes him win. Just don't do anything and don't talk to him will be a bigger f*** you than any text you send

[Asker]

That what I think I may do the more I think about it. I really want to tell him that but a really small part of me still feels like he might just text me one day and everything be fine but I have no idea. I don't know if I should just let everything go and in a month or so just text him and be like "hey how are you" but I am afraid by that time he is going to forget who I am... I don't know what to do! This whole situation with him is kind of dumb.. Any advice on what you think would be best?

[Habakkuk]

you can go ahead and send it if you don't ever want to hear from him again, but if I got a text like that, I'd think "what a bitch"

[Asker]

That's just it thought... I don't know if I will ever hear from him again so I am torn between sending it and letting him know how I feel and being doing with it and then on the other hand I don't want to send it and let things go and maybe try and talk to him in a month or so and see where things go from there. I don't know which would be better though