When making out, how carried away do you get?

[impossible2find3]

ok well when me and my boyfriend are making out, he stops thinking and just does. Don't get me wrong, I love it, but sometimes he can get a little carried away and I have to tell him to stop. He usually does but when we get hot and heavy again he gets carried away again, and I usually don't want to stop him but something just tells me to stop. And what's weird is, he is new at his like really new and he is so amazing! I'd like to get carried away every once in a while, without us both getting carried away, but thts going to be impossible! So what I'm really wanting to know, how carried away do you get wen making out with ur boyfriend/girlfriend?

[Snorkledorf]

Guys just go forward when making out. They may blunder forward in great haste as their hormones heat up, or they may advance more gradually, but they will just keep going in that Energizer Bunny way until the girl indicates that a limit has been reached for now. For guys there is no inherent internal feeling of "too far" for him to fall back on (it's more like, "Are we there yet?!" lol), so it's really up to the girl to gently rein him in from time to time. It's absolutely your prerogative to establish those limits in any way/time you choose, so don't hesitate to do so when you feel it's time. Just be kind to the poor guy when you do so -- slamming on the brakes in that situation can be tough on a guy.

As they gain experience guys (usually) gain the ability to throttle themselves back as it gradually dawns on them that girls don't actually like it so much when they charge full ahead. Maybe that's one reason why some girls like older men, because they can let themselves get carried away while the guy still clearly has himself under control? Anyway being new at it, your boyfriend will probably continue to get carried away for the foreseeable future.

[whatsmyname]

Sometimes we just make out and that is all. Sometimes he touches my chest outside my shirt, sometimes under my bra. He usually lets his hands wander over my body depending on how we are laying. Either he will rub my stomach, my sides, or his newest thing is to grab my butt under my jeans [which I love]. A few times he has rubbed in between my legs over my jeans, but the last time we were together he ended up fingering me. I didn't consider that getting carried away though because he asked first if it was ok. All the other things he just does.

It's alright to stop him if you aren't ready. But he's a guy, he won't stop trying. If it is something making you uncomfortable you should tell him.

[impossible2find3]

Well I am ready...i just don't want to get too carried away. I love everything he does its just tht I don't like to think either and its hard to get back to thinking so we don't do ne thing we would regret doing right now.

[whatsmyname]

I've told him to stop before we've gone too far. It's not so much a thought, but a feeling. You can feel it when you are going too fast or too far. You can feel it when it's time to say enouhg