hey forget what these girls are saying, since you are the caring type, why don't you begin with the extreme, ignore them! and when you talk to them, have sex on you mind, then just ignore for a while.
Basically when you talk make your intetions clear, then disappear for a bit.
But in general, the less you are ACTUALLY care, the more you get laid...
Ignoring is not good and it can be upsetting. Playing a game and taking time to get back to a girl or accidently forgetting to reply to a message is ok. It also depends on the girl abd how she is. Some girls get upset and think that they have done something wrong if a guy ignores them and some girls enjoy it.
That's true... if I guy just like throws himself at you I don't ever really want him. And the guy that rarely calls is like always on my mind. But I don't think you should change. Because the guys that ignore girls always tend to turn out to be jerks... ateast from my experience. And if a girl sincerely likes you, she'll be glad you put forth effort.
Well, in my opinion, there's a fine line. Don't try to make too much of an effort, just casually look at her and then when she looks at you look away. It's a huge tease that gets me every time. but if the girl doesn't show any interest back, lay off and ignore her completely. She'll either want more attention and try to give you attention or she won't do anything cause she's truly just not interested. Hope this helped! :]
Too much ignoring can lead to girl being with another guy. But a little bit works fine, girls do the same (the ones who play hard to get) but guys need to remember that when you ignore than it makes us think you're not interested. And girls might not want to chase you if you ignore them so be careful with that ;)
Sad. I can say that because I went through it. A few years ago, I had a big crush on a guy who turned out to be a jerk. To make a LONG story short, he started out nice (and, even, a little affectionate), but then he turned cold and rude. He would ignore me at times. The feelings weren’t mutual, but he was such an ass about it. 🙄
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I agree to some extent to 'playing the game', but I think deliberate ignoring is just plain rude. Yes have a life and don't devote it to one person you've just met, but I hate it when guys ignore me just to seem mysterious or whatever it is they think they are doing. It puts me off wanting to talk to them again. If I'm busy and I get a text or an email or whatever, I may not get it until the next day, but I reply straight away and explain that I was busy. I was brought up with manners and I'm not ashamed of it!
If women don't appreciate a genuinely nice guy then they need their heads examined. I'm having the same trouble with men...complete morons most of them who are only interested in how quickly you'll sleep with them...Hate guys like that!
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When a guy suddenly starts ignoring me, I think that he isn't interested anymore. So I try to move on. In some cases it might make the girl want you and keep trying, but you have to be careful how far you take it. Because at one point she might just give up and find somebody new.
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Can you blame her for not talking to you. I mean you've been playing head games with her, and
now she has no idea where she stands with you. It blew up in your face. Instead of being honest about your feelings, you decided to play with her feelings and it bit you on the butt. I would leave her alone, (she deserves better) and just start over. Find someone else and for heavens sake DON'T play those stupid games!
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well,
we don't like those guys who ignores us ,we just like them before they ignore us
and we don't ignore those guys who make effort after just when we know, we just ignore them form the very beginning.
the problem is, we as girls and you as guys, don't pay attention until we get that we are ignored, and so we draw a conclusion, like that one you did.
Well I don't like when guys make it way too easy, and just flat out ask me out. It kinda scares me away and ruins the friendship too. But I don't like it when guys completely ignore me. I just end up moving on and feeling bad about myself.
I haven't read the other comments as yet, but I can see you're point. As mean as it is, when a guy I like ignores me, I tend to think of him more, as I try to figure out why the hell he's ignoring me. It's horrible, but true.
No, if a guy ignores me and doesn't text me or try to hang out with me, I have nothing more to do than assume that he's not that interested and I'm gonna walk...
it really p*sses me offbut makes me like him more, then I would say y aren't you talking to me and eventually I would just forget about him, I mean what's the point in trying to talk to him when he's not even gna try nd tok to me. no way I would neva let a boy walk ova me agen
To some girls when a guy ignores her they tend to work evn harder for his attention to prove themselves worthy. While some go for the guy because its a challenge. As for me I would consider myself a challenger. I love challenges and I love a fairy tale which means I'll feel like Cinderella if that makes sense to you guys.
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hey forget what these girls are saying, since you are the caring type, why don't you begin with the extreme, ignore them! and when you talk to them, have sex on you mind, then just ignore for a while.
Basically when you talk make your intetions clear, then disappear for a bit.
But in general, the less you are ACTUALLY care, the more you get laid...
Why don't you try it...
Ignoring is not good and it can be upsetting. Playing a game and taking time to get back to a girl or accidently forgetting to reply to a message is ok. It also depends on the girl abd how she is. Some girls get upset and think that they have done something wrong if a guy ignores them and some girls enjoy it.
That's true... if I guy just like throws himself at you I don't ever really want him. And the guy that rarely calls is like always on my mind. But I don't think you should change. Because the guys that ignore girls always tend to turn out to be jerks... ateast from my experience. And if a girl sincerely likes you, she'll be glad you put forth effort.
please don't ignore the girl. it's drives us insane trying to think of any little thing that we could've said or done wrong.
you have to make it clear your into her but that may only stay the same if she treats you well and shows you the same consideration.
dont be extremely available, maybe wait a while before retuning calls but ALWAYS return calls.
Well, in my opinion, there's a fine line. Don't try to make too much of an effort, just casually look at her and then when she looks at you look away. It's a huge tease that gets me every time. but if the girl doesn't show any interest back, lay off and ignore her completely. She'll either want more attention and try to give you attention or she won't do anything cause she's truly just not interested. Hope this helped! :]
Too much ignoring can lead to girl being with another guy. But a little bit works fine, girls do the same (the ones who play hard to get) but guys need to remember that when you ignore than it makes us think you're not interested. And girls might not want to chase you if you ignore them so be careful with that ;)
Sad. I can say that because I went through it. A few years ago, I had a big crush on a guy who turned out to be a jerk. To make a LONG story short, he started out nice (and, even, a little affectionate), but then he turned cold and rude. He would ignore me at times. The feelings weren’t mutual, but he was such an ass about it. 🙄
I agree to some extent to 'playing the game', but I think deliberate ignoring is just plain rude. Yes have a life and don't devote it to one person you've just met, but I hate it when guys ignore me just to seem mysterious or whatever it is they think they are doing. It puts me off wanting to talk to them again. If I'm busy and I get a text or an email or whatever, I may not get it until the next day, but I reply straight away and explain that I was busy. I was brought up with manners and I'm not ashamed of it!
If women don't appreciate a genuinely nice guy then they need their heads examined. I'm having the same trouble with men...complete morons most of them who are only interested in how quickly you'll sleep with them...Hate guys like that!
When a guy suddenly starts ignoring me, I think that he isn't interested anymore. So I try to move on. In some cases it might make the girl want you and keep trying, but you have to be careful how far you take it. Because at one point she might just give up and find somebody new.
Can you blame her for not talking to you. I mean you've been playing head games with her, and
now she has no idea where she stands with you. It blew up in your face. Instead of being honest about your feelings, you decided to play with her feelings and it bit you on the butt. I would leave her alone, (she deserves better) and just start over. Find someone else and for heavens sake DON'T play those stupid games!
well,
we don't like those guys who ignores us ,we just like them before they ignore us
and we don't ignore those guys who make effort after just when we know, we just ignore them form the very beginning.
the problem is, we as girls and you as guys, don't pay attention until we get that we are ignored, and so we draw a conclusion, like that one you did.
Very nicely said!!!! I agreee =)
Well I don't like when guys make it way too easy, and just flat out ask me out. It kinda scares me away and ruins the friendship too. But I don't like it when guys completely ignore me. I just end up moving on and feeling bad about myself.
I haven't read the other comments as yet, but I can see you're point. As mean as it is, when a guy I like ignores me, I tend to think of him more, as I try to figure out why the hell he's ignoring me. It's horrible, but true.
When he ignores me, I feel crestfallen. This is because my crush for him is so strong, that I'm almost in love with him.
Then I will make more of an effort on my part to try to capture his full attention once more.
lol :)
Wtf I can't believe I wrote that.
No, if a guy ignores me and doesn't text me or try to hang out with me, I have nothing more to do than assume that he's not that interested and I'm gonna walk...
it really p*sses me offbut makes me like him more, then I would say y aren't you talking to me and eventually I would just forget about him, I mean what's the point in trying to talk to him when he's not even gna try nd tok to me. no way I would neva let a boy walk ova me agen
To some girls when a guy ignores her they tend to work evn harder for his attention to prove themselves worthy. While some go for the guy because its a challenge. As for me I would consider myself a challenger. I love challenges and I love a fairy tale which means I'll feel like Cinderella if that makes sense to you guys.
If the guy I like ignores me, I’ll be disappointed but I’ll move on.
i honestly wouldn't care if he was there when I needed him to be. I don't demand my man be there 24/7.
i hate it. it makes me miss you yes but also angry and bitter at you so be careful or it will backfire
I couldn't care less. Guys are a dime-a-dozen.