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Why would he want to push me away, then pull me back?

One minute it really seems like he cares, the next minute he doesn't have a clue how he feels or wants to say that he doesn't and then after a while, he'll come back. It's like a cycle.

Why would a guy do this?


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  • It could be one of these following reasons:

    1) He is very insecure because he have been hurt before. He feels like you are going to hurt him too. So, it's a feedback mechanism to protect himself. He pushes you away but then he misses you and so on.

    2) He's manipulative and therefore you're just an option; whenever he feels like listening to love words and to have fun with a girl, he gets back to you and soon after that he gets bored and pushes you away and so on.