How many days in advance a guy should ask a girl on a date?
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How many days in advance a guy should ask a girl on a date?
I voted C.
Because, if a girl is busy, and has a hectic schedule, then you should probably do it at least 5 days ahead..not to mention us girls want time to prepare ;)
And, if she isn't so busy, well it is still a good time between 3-5 days.
If you do a week ahead of time, that might be too far in advanced, and she might
have to stay over for work or something..unexpectedly or something. You know?
I have had that happen to me, where I make plans and two days later my job is like,
'by the way, you are MANDATORY to stay over on Friday.' I am like great.
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I said 3-5 days because if you wait until closer then she might be busy or she might just say no if she wants you to think she has a life, but longer than that and she will probably wonder why you don't want to see her sooner if you like her enough for a date...
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Honestly, it truly depends on the formality.
• If you plan on taking her to a considerably fancy restaurant, I would give her a decent heads-up (3 to 5, perhaps) in advance, in case she wishes to go purchase anything for the event.
• If you are planning something a bit more casual, I would be comfortable being asked a day or two before the selected day. -
I voted D. I think it's considerate to ask in advance because it shows you are really thinking about it and care whether or not she can make it. Of course the more casual the situation it is, the less it matters. But if you are in the early stages and you care about the impression you make, asking in advance is good.
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As long as its less than a week. Over a week is just way to much. I've had plans for over a week in advance and I was pretty excited and it really annoyed me to have to wait so long to see them. I'd say between 3 and 5 days would be the best at the start of a relationship. Not too short so you have time to be excited for it but not too long that you start to get annoyed and mess everything up when the big day finally comes.
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Depends on how spontaneous you both are and how close you are with the person. 2-7 days is safe in my opinion, but for example- if you're not comfortable doing things in the moment or she isn't then give yourselves some time to breathe goshdarnit.
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It doesn't matter! Ask her out a month in advance the day of, it does not matter. When ever you two are free you go on the date there is no rule.
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i say anywhere from 2-6 days in advance so it's less than a week but it gives her more time to prepare than just that one night. I say 3-5 is ideal. :)
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3-5 days because it give the girl sometime to figure what she'a going do!
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at least 3. you don't want her to think she's a last minute substitute do you?
whenever he's free but if I had to choose, 5-7 days
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2-3 days. because I'm impatient
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3 days. Industry standard, dude.
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5 days
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