I'm just wondering what initially attracts you to a guy. Please list anything else below. Thanks!
Girls, what attracts you to a guy?
eh I can be attracted to different things in different men. overall, he has to be somewhat proficient in most of those categories. first thing is appearance because looks are the first thing you see. if he's fine then some of the stuff on this list can slide depending HOW sexy he is (just being honest). if he's average/im neutral to him then his other qualities are gonna matter more but I may still be attracted to him after getting to know him. and if he's not attractive to me at all then its a stop, do not pass go type thing
PERSONALITY- well he can't be an obnoxious d*** or ignorant. the worse his personality is, the better looking he has to be.
APPEARANCE- looks well groomed/clean, nice face, decent body, at least medium height (5'8), decent style (doesn't look busted)
STATUS- high schools over so he doesn't need to be popular, but he can't be the person that everyone hates (there is usually a good reason for that), he should be masculine and somewhat confident so these things are automatically gonna give him a decent status off the bat. depending on his age he should at least have a car, a residence (if he's on the young side he can be still at home, or living on his own or in a dorm), and enough money where he's not super broke and collecting lint in his pockets
INTELLIGENCE- can't stand ignorance so if he's well rounded and good with conversation that's good. also he should at least have graduated from high school, if he's not in college/already completed college then he should be moderately successful aka not 28 years old with nothing to show for it
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its usually a combination of all the things youve listed in the poll. just some things dominate over others.
He has to be liked by other guys, if guys hate him...theres obviously something wrong there.
i don't mind if he has no female friends or very few it actually makes him more attractive than someone who has a list of them because hell seem unreliable or seems like a player- the chase will not feel worthy
Yeah he needs to have a good sense of reality. some guys just think everythings gna be okay even when they have no job, partying all the time etc they need to have a conscience. Not smart just a conscience so that he can hold a conversation.
Appearance matters but I think guys over think this. Some of my girlfriends are very attractive and theyre with average looking guys why? because the guys show that they have a conscience and they can hold up a conversation.
personally I'm drawn to anyone who can relate to me or have interests in what I like/enjoy regardless of looks, status,intelligence etc if you share a hobbie or value its an immediate attraction:)
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Body type (muscles, tall, well groomed, in shape)
Voice (deep, profound, unique)
Mannerisms(quiet, shy, doesn't like a lot of attention)
Personality(Is he helpful? Does he listen to me? Is he funny like me?)
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They'll claim personality or intelligence, in reality it'll be status or appearance.
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When I first meet them its appearance. But after talking to them for a bit its all about the personality that makes me decide to stay or go
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Initially, appearance and aura and sometimes how he acts around others like if he flirts with women well. Then when we start talking, his intelligence, charm, humor, flirtatiousness, confidence.
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From my observation it's money, height, and social status.
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intelligence, sense of humour, wit, thinks for themself and lame bullsh*t like that
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I'd have to say intelligence/personality because I'd have to be able to hold an intelligent conversation with the guy who also has a fun to be around personality. I mean looks wouldn't hurt but I'd never date a guy just because he's hot or sporty.
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all of them, other would be sense of humor and how they act around their friends and with you alone
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Its always the appearance at first, but as time goes on I want to know what is really inside of the guy.
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Appearance attracts. Personality makes you stay.
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E: his appeal is what attracts me first, that's how I would notice him!
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His appearance,his personality...
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E: Other (please explain below) ALL THE ABOVE! =D
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I'm attracted to quiet guys so...other?
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it will be both status and appearence
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Since I'm always thinking about sex, appearance.
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they want everything.
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