I've never really given this one that much thought. When it comes to how heavy a girl can be before I'm no longer attracted to her, the number usually doesn't have much to do with it. I've had two girls on my lap before and that was fine so if I had to guess (solely by number so assuming that I still thought she was attractive and had neutronium infused bones or something) I'd probably guess somewhere around 250 lbs. I think athletic girls are awesome and assuming she hasn't lost her curves, or gotten too curvy, then extra weight due to muscle is nothing I'd care about.
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There is no such thing. Listen, small fry, you have nothing to worry about.I way about -- in pounds perhaps 160. My wife weighs in at about 250 give or take 10. I simply LOVE her sitting on my lap, or lying on top of me. It's VERY exciting. Putting all that in context, think it over.
You are NOT too heavy. She isn't - you aren't.
If he wants you to sit on his lap, do it. If you're too much, he'll ask you to get up. Believe me.
If the weather is cold or wet, then even when we're outside my wife sits on my lap. It's hot.
Really hot.
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Since when is 140 lbs something to be ashamed of? Unless he's really really small, I think he can handle it.
IF the guy isn't thinner than you I think his balls want be crushed. Don't worry it will be ok
I don't think there is such a thing... I think this would be relative based on the two people involved.
I once got sat on by a 260 lb girl she wasn't really fat she was just curvy, thick, and pretty tall (about 5'11 or 6'0). I'm not gonna lie I felt pretty squashed and she only sat on my lap for about a minute or two cause I felt like my legs were gonna break. All guys are different, but for me I would say the heaviest girl that I would be able to support on my lap for more than 5 minutes would probably be no more than 190 lbs.
If you're bigger than him don't sit on him. If you're the same size it can be risky...
No! You aren't fat! It sounds like you have a great body TBH
Sit on his lap if you feel a boner your good 2 go, and if he wasn't attracted to you he wouldn't ask you to sit on his lap
I'm sure he can handle it.
Too heavy for me would be over 200.
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