How do I "play hard to get" without being rude but letting them know that I'm definitely interested?
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It's my experience that playing hard to get means only giving him just barely enough to keep pursuing you, and so playing the game you can't let him know that you're definitly interested.
This is why I stopped being the victim in the "hard to get" game. I do not play the game from either end, period. I used to chase girls who were playing hard to get and just gave up eventually, they played the game too long and ended up loosing a really good guy (and I'm not in the least bit afraid to say that).
My suggestion, if you like him and he likes you, just tell him and get together with him. I don't care what anybody says, I HATE the chase.1