i don't want to make her feel like I'm pushing her to dump her boyfriend
she talks to me all the time and I ski with her a lot. when her boyfriend isn't around she never mentions him but when he is around she acts like they are not going out when I'm around and she doesn't act like she likes me, so he don't get mad.
I think maybe you should just tell her how you feel, and tel her you know she has a boyfriend... but you just had to tell her how you felt and then if she does like u, she'll dump her boyfriend. Good luck :)
ok this is a bad situation but I'm not going to talk you out of it. just make sure she knows you like her. don't just drop hints just tell her you like her. just say be all "i know you probs don't wanna hear this and I don't wanna let this affect our friendship. but I guess you already know I like you right?" and just make it clear that you know she has a boyfriend and your not going to pressure her into anything