hes got the exact reaction he wanted...he has made you realize that even you like him...if you didn't you would not have cared so much...its a strategy that worked well for him...i think you should ask yourself why you were so curious as to why he doesn't talk to you anymore and the fact that you still wanted to text him and hang out shows you actually cared most girls don't if they don't like the person...just ask yourself this question...the guy loves you a lot and I think you have started to...i am a very romantic person and understand love stories very well I always help out my friends in their relationships and have always had a positive result...its a different story that I could not work all that out in my life, I was deeply in love with a girl and she didn't care the right thing to do is what your guy has successfully done but I found it very difficult and thus now she doesn't even talk to me...i think your guy has done a great job and I know he loves you and you do to all the best to you both...Again this only what I think I'm not telling you that you love him I'm just telling what I think and all I want is for you to ask yourself this question
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I ignore the girls I like on purpose ( not in real life , I'm talking about texting / Facebook / phone calls mostly ) because I ask girls what I should do , and they say that I must wait for that amount of days before sending another text , or I should ignore them a couple of days . because a guy that seems too interested is seen as desperate and no challenge - and it's a turn off so it seems...
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this does only concern INITIATION of contact. I would never ignore a girls text / phone call or whatever if she initiates... the only thing I would sometimes do is wait a minute or 5 to reply :p
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I don't, it's just a silly mind game that wouldn't work... People do it to have some sort of false 'control' Either that or they were interested but have the attention span of a pineapple.
Had a similar experience with a girl from work a couple of years ago who was older than me and I felt she was waaay out of my league but still liked me for some reason. I would ignore her because It made me feel good when she would text or call me first just so I knew she was still thinking about me even if it drove me crazy waiting
BUT sometimes when we were texting I would start a reply delete it put my phone down think of what to say or get distracted and so much time would go by coming up with lies every single time about being busy doing something just got old so I woudnt reply at all. She thought I was trying to ignore her and play games but I was just over analysing my own responses.
Also whenever I was stoned which was a night or two a week I would completely ignore her because I didn't want to say something stupid and she wasn't a big fan of weedOk if I like a girl I would never ignore her.Heck no for sure I would always be interested in her.Of course if I like her...So guys do because there deauces.Me personally I don't if I like you I pressue you :)
Because..if a guy (read person) shows their hand too early it can convince the member of the opposite gender that they should set their goals higher...a dumb game...in a way...but ..it's also Mother Nature's game...so I cannot argue it...only express frustration from time to time...but..I sometimes wonder how many potential wonderful relationships got torched..only because one or the other of the sexes made an inadvertent ...er...slip?
BS. when a guy gives you the attention, you have what you want. this guy isn't giving you attention so guess who's in your head?...him!
girls are like if you ignore them you complaint of being ignored and if you look at them you complaint of giving too much attention
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