Is it wrong to flirt with a girl who has a boyfriend?

[Jeunehomme]

is it wrong to flirt with a girl who has a boyfriend, the attraction between us is so intense and I can't ignore that... but then again what's the proper thing to do?

[Guy4Girls]

This is one of the problems I have with women. Committed women enjoy flirting with me. In the past year, I've had an engaged 23 year old woman flirt with me, a married woman flirt with me then ask me to carpool with her, then most recently a woman who has a boyfriend be persistent in getting my phone number. Anyways, I was able to get advice from Matt & Tamsen and their advice is to just take it as a compliment and that's it. You can check out their video response if you would like. I think it cleared things up for me. Bottom line, committed women flirt to see if they still got "IT" and it may not mean a darn thing. Right now, it is you that is very attracted to her and she is just feeding that attraction by flirting with you. Anyways, good luck and don't get "shot". LOL.

[Hunterboyz]

I wouldn't call you wrong...

Its not you...

Legally both of you are single...

but she has a little obligation to the guy she is with.

Your not doing anything that she isn't letting you do...

Its not like your raping her, and if a guy rolls up on you, use that old pimp line:

"Hey man, your b**** chose me!"

He can either except it, or be ignorant and get whipped over a female's lies.

Good Luck Man!

Sincerely,

A Loving Black Man

[Jeunehomme]

U got style bro, but calling a girl a bitch for no reason is totally uncool. lol

[lorelai87]

WOW is all I can say... Is that how you handle girls? Hmmm. You might need a little lesson yourself buddy.

[Hunterboyz]

Dude, are y'all reading the message?

Your talking to her guy friend if he tries to confront you.

& no I don't talk to females that way. I don't really talk to anyone that way, but that is an old pimp line... When a hoe left a pimp for another, the new pimp would tell the old pimp,

"You know how the game goes... Your B chose me!!!"

Thats not me talking though... I'd say, hey man its a two way street, she chose me, and I don't know you.

So, My apologies Lorelai87, and all.

Sincerely

[lorelai87]

Okay. sorry if that was rude. :/ I was kinda joking but I guess that didn't come out that way. After typing it, I was like "Wow. That's realllllly rude." so my apologies as well.

[BBGyrl]

Yes I think that's it wrong, would like if she was your girlfriend and another guy was constantly flirting with her? I think that you should take a few steps back, if she's unhappy with her boyfriend then that's something that she needs to deal with herself without any influence from you, also I don't know what they says about her because if she's flirting with you even though she's got a man, what make you think that if you got together that she wouldn't do that with someone else. Still I think that you should give the situation some time and see what happens and then talk to her about what's going on.

[lorelai87]

Well I've had the same situation but it was with a guy who had a girlfriend. It got to the point where the guy was paying more attention to me than his girlfriend. The girlfriend finally spoke up and now the guy won't talk to me. All I'd say buddy is if you want to deal with one day waking up and seeing some guy ready to hit you or confront you about it. Go ahead. But I wouldn't recommend it. Find someone who's single and likes you. Good luck! Hey aren't you stoner dude who I talked to the other night on here? lol

[Jeunehomme]

Lmfao. I can't remember.

But I will try. And don't call me stoner dude, I'm not like knee deep in grass, even though id kill for that fantasy to come true.

[lorelai87]

Haha. It was not an insult. I just meant you were stoned when I talked to you. Nothing personal. Make a crack these days and people get all up in my case. Well good luck with the girl. Play it cool. See what happens. If she likes you enough she'll dump you, unless she's a player. Then she may just keep you around for that little fix when she's not getting satisfaction from her boyfriend. Who knows though. Women confuse me too much and I'm one myself. :p

[lorelai87]

Yah. I did talk to you. You were talking about chemistry and stuff. And Radiohead. You probably don't remember. haha. :)

[ClancyJames]

One has to question how strongly the girl you are flirting with feels about her boyfriend. If she is content then she shouldn't be flirting with you but if you see she seems more friendly then would be expected from a girl who is dating one wonders. I'd say play it cool for a few days and see if she comes to you. If she does then she shouldn't be in a relationship with her boyfriend.

[tastethis]

Yo I do it all the time. It's just that I don't make a move over the line of flirting. I consider it a very big no in my morals. I mean touching for fun is ok but things over that would just be wrong and people who go across the line with people that are occupied should really slap themselves.

[Atomizer]

Is it wrong to _flirt_ with someone in a serious, committed relationship? Not necessarily. A little flirting can be harmless.

Is it okay to make a move on someone else's girlfrend? I think it's unwise.

Here's how I look at it:

Do you want to date a girl who'd cheat on her boyfriend, or who'd bail out on him to be with another guy?

If she'd do it _with_ you, she'd do it _to_ you.

[MrSchneider]

un jeune homme? c vrai?

alors,

i think its wrong. but only because I'm a little sensitive about who my girlfriend talks to. I'm not controlling or anything, haha

but if your flirting with a girl, and she has a boyfriend, she may realize that you are better than her boyfriend. afterall, she is attracted to you, or so you say.

i say in this case, go for it, Ricko Suave. ;)

[PEACE13]

Okay... yes it is wrong but on the other hand nearly everyone does it.. I can't say much I have an amazing boyfrind who I love but imm a huge flirt like just comments and reactions to what they say> So when you say your flirting is it touching jokes comments?

[the-b-boy]

if you had a girl friend,&some other guy tried to flirt with her,how would you feel

[Arics]

I do it all the time. :)