Why do girls like guys that ignore them?
I have a problem. It's when I start ignoring girls they come after me, but then when I like one of those girls and show interest they turn the cold shoulder?
What's Your Opinion?
Most Helpful Opinion
No I don't want the attention of anyone who ignores me. Doesn't work that way with me.
What Girls Said 3
It's human nature, guys and girls like competition and what they can't have. But its not that they like you more when you ignore them its that they fight for that attention more so it seems obvious. when you don't ignore them they're not as obvious because they have attention and are more subtle about it
It's a mind trick. She wants you to chase after her and when you start ignoring her she realizes it's not working. Playing hard to get doesn't work lol
How do you show interest? Coming on too strong can be a huge turn off. On the other hand, signals that seem obvious to you may mean something entirely different or nothing at all to a girl.
What Guys Said 3
Sucks when they play your game huh?
Hard to get is a challenge. They like the mysterious, dark, loner type sometimes. Brooding and whatever and maybe they feel that he'd change if he only had a special woman in his life meaning her.
Girls want what they can't have. When they can't have you (you're ignoring them) they start to go "what the heck" and will then chase after you.