Girl code: If you want to keep a boyfriend, prolong sex. Most girls believe that giving in right away can satisfy a guy enough that he will move on to the next best thing. She fears losing you. She is older, which leaves her even more self conscious because she feels that she has to measure up to the younger girls. She cares for you enough to wait to have sex. Sex makes a relationship even stronger, but it is not necessary for it to work. Don't rush her, if you care for her. If it really does bother you, talk to her about it. Ask her why ya'll haven't had sex yet. She isn't trapping you; be thankful because there are many women that would trap men with babies or stds. She's just trying to establish a long term relationship. Best wishes.
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Have you ever asked her why this is happening?
Once, when I was only about 22, I had a boyfriend I didn't sleep with for three months. I was INCREDIBLY attracted to him, but a bit gunshy because of my strong feelings and because my last relationship was me being used by an older, more experienced guy. We fooled around a lot, but I too was too afraid to take the plunge into sex. I kick myself now, because I should have just talked to him about it. I was afraid he'd be mad at me for talking about my past in any way shape or form. Of course, he dumped me.
Now I feel like a dummy for not communicating in my relationship, even though it's been years. Live and learn.
WHY are you in a relationship THIS LONG without getting any? It is insane! Who the hell told you that this is in any way normal. I usually break off a relationship after three dates without sex, let alone three months, you don't have to be like me, but it seems you are pretty desperate to stay with someone this long, it's time to stop being so desperate
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Maybe she's not fully over the ex.
Don't make her feel like sex is all you want.. its a turn off. But start by asking what's wrong.. what's been on her mind.She's wacked, bro. Trust me. Eject. I can can tell you with certainty that she's a nutter.
Guess she wants to keep you hanging and keep the control.
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"She's just not that into you"
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