Would it be completely out of the normal to suggest we do something during the day(hopefully it would go into the night?)?
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like martyfellow is wrong. don't tell the guy or whatever. that shit could work but it so much cooler when that stuff just lines up or whatever just happens lol its romantic and fun. what do you guys like to do? do one of those things. it doesn't matter if its something that you like to do or something that he likes to do, but do one of those things. yea do something during the day, and if it goes well just have your evening and night free. if he's been paying for the dates and you wanna show him that you like him or reduce the strain on his bank account lol, make it something that you don't have to pay for or pay for the date yourself. if you do end up paying then this will really impress him. a good idea is to introduce him to one of your favorite passtimes and thus teach him more about you. make the date in a public or group setting and then progress to a secluded setting if you so desire. there aren't any rules, do what you feel comfortable with, and try to build a comfortable connection between you two where niether one is nervous or anything, and you can just feel good. if the chemistry is good and both of you are mature, should be fun. lol good luck have fun. feels weird giving a girl advice.
This girl I am seeing we are having a 3rd date this weekend and last time I talked to her I told her for our next date she can come over to my place and we are going to cook dinner together, doesn't have to be anything hard to make, but that way no ones bank account will be drained for the date, and even if you don't have all the ingredients needed then you can just go shopping with him and get the stuff needed for the dinner, it's better than waiting for an hour for a table and it gives you more one on one time. And if you both don't know how to cook then it will be a good learning experience and if all else fails as in you burn the food, or almost burn the kitchen down, you can both laugh about it and then order take out and get a movie and chill on the couch.
I wouldn't do a date at his or your place (cooking together etc) unless you're ready to sleep with him. It's just a given if you go over to his house and you're there making out or whatever, that the next step is take it to the bedroom...if that's what you want to do, go ahead and take groceries and cook for him otherwise plan something else.
I like active dates - bowling, skating, rock climbing. Even walking around a museum can give you a good chance to get to get to know each other. That can be done during the day and then you can suggest getting a bite to eat after in order to extend the date.
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Museum, bowling, make him dinner, concert. Just make sure its something that you can do for a long time but that you can leave and spend some time alone if you want to.
Sounds like a fun exciting beginning with a lot of promise. I'm happy for you.
His expectations are probably that you won't want to go to far...his hopes are that you will let him stay the night. Its really all within your comfort, but I wouldn't be afraid to make a move or be a little bit forward if you are really feeling it...guys like that, and on a third date he's not going to think its because you are "easy" or anything like that.
There aren't any RULES about what happens on certain numbered dates. It sounds like he is expecting sex. Make up your mind beforehand about that and tell him at the beginning...
I would go to somewhere fairly safe, like hiking where other people are around, and decide from there where else to go.
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