So girls, what are some good ways to tease you?

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Girls have a million and one ways to tease a guy, how can guys return the favor. What ways do you like to be teased?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It depends on the guy. What works for one guy won't work for another. A guy with sweet, quiet mannerisms can get away with more overt teasing than a guy who is perceived to be loud-mouthed or obnoxious.

For example, a quiet guy asked me a question, and I answered it; he asked a follow up question, and I answered it, when he asked me the third question, it was a joke (implying that I was out of tune), which was funny because I'm actually a singer. He smiled broadly and ducked behind his computer screen, and I scoffed as though I had been offended, but he know I was kidding.

Another guy is always hiding something that belongs to his wife, then snickers while she looks for it. She always looks for the object for a few minutes before looking at his face, then shakes him down for it, but lovingly, with smiles for still loving her enough to tease her that way after 18 years of marriage.

On the other hand, there's a guy who has this loud booming voice and when he talks, it seems like everything he says is in mocking, though he's often being complimentary and serious. Today he said, "You're very bright and I'm proud of you." which was complimentary, but sounded condescending because of his tone. It's only now that I know him that I can understand when he is teasing and when he is being sincere. It's much easier to read the quiet guy's gestures and teasing.

So basically, it's the delivery and the personality more than the words that would allow a girl to understand that you're teasing her and to accept it from you. The fact that she understands and accepts it from you indicates that she likes you.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

A girl like it when a guy pays attention to the little things about herself that she isn't even thinking about. Like, I'm worried about my hair and I realize that my boyfriend is completely on a different page obsessing over the beads on my necklace or something of the sort. That's a dumb example but I hope it relays the idea. Someone mentioned she liked it when a guy would fix her bra strap for her. Sometimes my boyfriend will play around with my face like I do...adjusting my hair, brushing away that random eyelash, etc. You can 'accidentally' bump into her...depending on her personality. Flirtatiously karate kick her. Laugh allot, be engaging. I like to be hugged from behind, some girls hate it. Do something shows you were thinking of her before you got to her, even if just by seconds...supposing you just walked up. If it was snowing sneak up behind her and put snow in her hair. Bring her a flower, coffee, note, chocolate, any small 'you were on my mind' item.

Everyone likes something different so if I were you I'd try and notice what 'type' of teasing/flirting she seems to like and go from there.

And the one thing that always gives my attention to a guy is if me respects me as a person. If me looks at me like a have worth and significance, it means allot. I'm not insecure nor do I need the vote of confidence. However, I get pissed if I get the impression that a guy somehow thinks of himself as better than me and then flirts with me. The two cannot go hand in hand. If you don't respect me, don't flirt. If you do respect me, you already have points.

oOsweet~o~nessOo · Accepted Answer

Being obvious about your sexual desire but non - chalant at the same time. Like saying hey and walking up - then putting your hand on my lower back ( obviously a bit lower than standard ha ha,) then asking me how my day was as if your hand isn't half a centimeter from my ass.

Behind the back hugs - behind teh back hugs then say something kind of softly into my ear - or my fav - behind the back hugs and then resting your chin on the space between my neck and shoulders while talking about something casual - or you can compliment - whatever you feel like saying.

Tasteful flirty touches that seem to happen more often than they should are good.

Talking about psuedo - sexual topics and incorporating you and I into them in a kiddish way -

Like:

YOU: " Didn't sleep to good last night?'

HER: " Nah me and my bed were fighting ha ha."

YOU: " Ha your bed won obviously."

HER: " It's okay - I like it rough :P "

YOU: " Good - then I won't hurt you too much... ;)"

HER: " he he :3"

bobair · Accepted Answer

Here are some fun ways I've found effective...

Invite her out for dinner but refuse to tell her where you're going. Make sure you pick her up too... if she asks just tell her to wear that super cute t-shirt you like and some comfy jeans. The place doesn't have to be expensive, it just has to be a mystery.

If you've been dating book a weekend away, maybe on a ski trip or just a 4 hour drive to the mountains for a few nights. But again, don't tell her where you're going, just to pack.

Her not knowing is you're way of teasing her.

Or how about this... make her dinner, but don't let her see it until it's done.

Don't answer her direct questions, just answer with questions of your own... She asks, "What do you do for a living?" to which you might say, "Oh, it's a secret... shhhhhhhh."

Basically do all the bratty things women do, except have fun with it... don't just be a d***.

The goal is fun, not rudeness. :)

~ Robby

truecollors · Accepted Answer

Walk up behind her and put your arms over her. Rest your head next to her ear and lightly blow on it, then say something along the lines "And how are you to day. While you blow on her ear, let your hands fall down over her chest and into her pants. Rub your hands below her bellybutton almost there but not low enough to touch there. and make shore your not in her undies just her pants. Doing that bring your knee up under her and in-between her legs. Only go high enough to be between her thighs no high.

Or the easy side smile, wink then look down.

xoxobean · Accepted Answer

Playful Teases That Women Love We all know the drill:  you meet a girl, you start flirting, and things heat up. But sometimes, you might find yourself in a bit of a rut, not knowing how to take things to the next level. If you're looking for some playful teasing that will make her love you even more, read on! 1. The hair twirl. This is a classic move that never fails to please. Gently take a lock of her hair between your fingers and give it a little twirl. The key is to be gentle and not pull too hard. She'll love the playful gesture and the feel of your fingers running through her hair. 2. The cheek kiss. This is a great way to show her you're interested without going too far. Just lean in and give her a quick peck on the cheek. She'll be smiling all day long thinking about your kiss. 3. The whisper.  This is a move that's sure to get her heart racing. Lean in close and whisper something in her ear. It could be something as simple as "You look beautiful tonight" or "I can't wait to kiss you". Either way, she'll be thrilled by your close proximity and the sexy words you're whispering in her ear. 4. The hand touch. This is a great way to gauge her interest level. Take her hand in yours and give it a gentle squeeze. If she squeezes back, you know she's interested. If she pulls away, she might not be ready for more. 5. The footsie. This is a fun and playful way to tease her. Under the table, discreetly run your foot along hers. She'll love the illicit nature of the move and the fact that you're touching her in a public place. These are just a few playful teases that are sure to please. So go ahead and give them a try!

Leamonade · Answer

I assume you mean sexually, right?

13johnro's got it right. Alternating between kissing and a completely unsexy conversation IS SO F***ING HOT, when he does it on purpose I mean. Shows he's totally aware of how turned on I am and yet wants to keep me waiting.

Or or coming up from behind me and hugging me, kissing the back of my neck, whispering in my ear and then walking away. It's just SUCH A TURN ON MY GOD.

Any sort of light touch that has an intent and then stops is also sexy. Light brushes on my thigh, lower back, collarbone, that sort of thing.

think_of_the_bubble · Answer

I like a little healthy and flirtatious competition. Like when we are playing chess together and he teases me by telling me he's a better a chess player than me and he can't wait to beat me...

Or when he grabs the book I'm trying to read and won't give it back to me, and I have to tickle him and wrestle him to get it back

Or when I beat him at a game of checkers and he denies it just to annoy me

Buckminsterfuller · Answer

Soooo glad you asked this! ;) Teasing is actually a fine art when you intend to follow through with more later. I would say the best way to tease a girl, intrigue her and leave her wanting more is to look her in the eyes, gently run your thumb across her lips and then kiss her very softly. She will feel like the most beautiful girl in the world and think you are a complete gentleman which will totally work in your favor.

But in your update you said pre-kissing teases..putting your hand on her waist when passing her, in gentle not grabby way can be a good one, depending on the context. Also, if she ever has a pen mark or anything on her neck, pulling her over and telling her and rubbing it off. Someone once did that to me...sighhhhhh. Enough said?

Anonymous · Answer

It's easy to tease  girls .. but the best one is  when my boyfriend touches the part right above my cleavage .. and just doesn't go down .. it drives me nuts and I wanna scream " JUST GRAB MY BREASTS ALREADY" lol .. but it's good because it turns me really on .. unlike when he directly goes for my boobs .. it's not the same :

13johnro · Answer

Kiss me deeply for a few minutes until you really feel my body responding then just stop and start trying to start a conversation. Its going to drive me nuts. Another great way is to trace my collar bones, chest and top of my breasts with your hands then act like your going to go in for the grab but don't just kiss my neck lightly. (: Anything like that.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm going to answer this the way I interpretted the question being asked, which is contrary to how so many people answered this question.

There are too many ways to sexually tease a woman. Parts that are super sensitive include, but are not limited to:

-the obvious places

-the ears (lightly suck or lick--do not slobber, pull, or breath heavy)

-the neck (nibble lightly to biting harder depending on her pleasure)

-fingers/hands (we hold an unbelieveable amount of stress in our hands)

-toes/feet (as much as I hate feet, I LOVE when a man sucks my toes)

-abdomen (light touches)

-lower back (lick the curve)

-oddly, behind the knee (light touching and licking)

-inside of the upper arm (lightly rub; it's wicked soft and massively sensitive)

Narurally, the obvious places such as the nipples, clitoris, labia (both minora and majora), rectum, and inner thighs are all great too for licking and whatnot.

Anonymous · Answer

when I'm having and argument with boyfriend and he just interrupt me and kiss me its just a turn on! or when we are just talking and he do the same  and them while we are kissing we kind of smile beetween , is so sweet! I also love when he takes whatever I'm reading or writing and he takes ot off and we start a little fight! also when we are watching a movie and we are like one second from making out and he looks to another place , it just makes me crazy and want to say to him "can you kiss me for once?! hahahaa or when we are cuddleing and he start rubing my back first over my shirt and then under it... I just love that! :)

Nannook · Answer

Kisses on the neck, when my guys slowly rubs my side. Coming up from behind and hugging me and breathing on my neck. Kissing me between every few words he says. Talking sexy.

livi23 · Answer

Tickle me :D I am so sensitive on my stomach, I squeal if anyone even touches there lightly :p And I like to be hugged from behind, and when he kisses my neck and whispers in my ear :) And I don't really mind if his hands slide a little further down my back than usual... :)

FickleIris · Answer

Well, every guy has this sexy little half smirk, it resally drives us crazy to see it directed at us :)

Plus, little things like 'accidentally' bumping into us, or if our bra strap falls down and (obviously just being a gentleman) you push it up onto our shoulder again.

windy-rose · Answer

What guys (or anyone) can pull off depends on the person. Work with whatever your strengths are- wit, goofiness, sarcasm, combinations, etc.

Keep it in character with you and it'll work with the ladies who'll jive with you.

MrFlirtatious1992 · Answer

The one sided player smile. Drives them crazy. Many may say that it won't work on them but they can't really argue when you see how their body language changes ;)

Dakotagirl900 · Answer

tickling me(no one knows where my tickle spot is), kissing me and makin some noise! or just tell me all the things you'll do to me!

swagger101 · Answer

Well from a girl's prospective, just joke about something cute they doo. So if they stutter a lot, (well first make sure they're okay with being picked on) then just joke on that. Basically anything, there isn't many rules to it. But make sure that you don't offend the girl, because we are VERY sensitive and will take ANYTHING too seriously, believe me.

arielemme · Answer

When my boyfriend and I are making out we found there are spots around my back and sides that just send these amazing electric jolts through me and it's almost like being tickled but sort of more intense and he has to let his fingers roam over my skin to find them and I love the feeling and it always leaves me breathing really hard. It's what he does to get back at me when I get him really turned on c:

SomeOtherGuy · Answer

Lean in close, be dominant. Sit close to her. You know I'm not really sure. I can't think of too many flirty, teasing moves to use on a chick either.

snowboarder720 · Answer

well what I'm really into, is double wrapping my arms around them from behind. Squeezing there bodies to my chest, then breath harder than usual either on the ear or down the neck. Whisper something (anything) then nibble behind the ear. Then rub around their waistline.

Another is pinning their arms above their head, I have a thing for it. Why? I'm not sure. But I do it anyway. Maybe growl in their ear...

I could go on and on haha.

danndan6 · Answer

Am I wrong in thinking that you meant pre kissing? like what ways to tease them in conversation?

sourpatchchik2 · Answer

Tickle me, pin me under you...or pin my arms over my head, run your fingers over me, spank me in a teasing way, talk flirty with me, etc etc etc.(:

Anonymous · Answer

Among other erotic things...gripping my ankles firmly and moving my legs...stroke my calves... hot. And degrees of control, including self- control.  Number one? eye gaze, intense, non-smiling, hot eye contact. Fire !

So girls, what are some good ways to tease you?

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1. The hair twirl.

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