He broke up with me and says we're just friends but still treats me like his girlfriend. Why?

we were going out about 4 months,i love him sooo much and then one day suddenly he broke up with me I didn't argue it,i just said okay.every since we broke up he's more affectionate ,he tells me he loves more and is just really unusually loving.okay well here comes the twist while talkin to my friend one day I figured out his sister knew my x boyfriend .she told her brother my ex boyfriend was trying to get with her!i asked him about it and he told me he only wanted to get to know her,and that he wouldn't hurt me like that.but I just can't believe that I know most people my age when they're trying to get to know someone they're not looking to be best friends..was he lying to me?and if he broke up with me why is he still treating me as if nothing ever happened?


Most Helpful Girl

  • Because honey, he is an a**hole! I'm sorry to say it but what? He dumps you and then knowing how you feel doesn't do the decent thing and give you space to heal! He doesn't want you but he doesn't want to be without you but you must know that you deserve a guy who does JUST WANT YOU! If I were you I wouldn't concern yourself with his motives when talking to your friend's sister...! I would concern yourself with the fact that he tells you he doesn't want to be your boyfriend and then continues to stick around like a bad smell! He wants his cake and to eat it and all the while it is making you feel bad! If he cared, would he really want to mess with you like this? I'm sorry if it sounds harsh honey! I don't want to but trust me, you will find better! Kick him to the curb where he belongs...


What Guys Said 1

  • i think he's trying to make you jealous but I don't know why


What Girls Said 5

  • If a man shows any interest at all in another girl, its best to forget about him. Because number one he plays games and his going to hurt you, number two he's not committed to you and isn't trust worthy, and number three if you wanted you and cared about you and loved you it would be all about you no second thoughts no other interests in his head he would be worried about you and yelling at you for getting to know guys not trying to make you jealous. He may care for you but he doesn't love you not right now and he ruined your relationship even if you guys get back together it will never be the same things will always happen that will have your concern. You guys are damaged just try to go out and be happy and let another guy catch your eye and make you fall in love with him.

  • i think you need to have a serious talk with him and ask him why he is treating you as if nothng happened! its obvious you still love him. but I think he kind of doesn't respect you because he is just doing whatever he wants with you. maybe because he knws you still love him.

    why did he break up with you in the first place? why were you silent? you should have asked him at least.

    he is so rude!

    anyway, I suggest you talk to him and either you get back together and work on ur relationship, either you tell him to buzz off and leave you alone because you actually deserv better. that's wot I would do. good luck. dun wori, if its not him...plenty of fish in the sea

  • I am going through the same thing. My boyfriend broke up with me but when we do talk its like we never did. He still ells me he loves me and everything...idk what it is.

  • some guys like to play girls and they appear charming. some just are really bad. if he's got a girlfriend already and she treats like you like a gf, that's not good. not until he makes it official, then you should be serious. I had an ex do this to me. it hurt and yes he did lie