ALL the girls love him... how do I win him over?

melissle
I'm into guy I work with but the thing is that he is two things that girls in Australia (where I live) LOVE; he's BRITISH and GORGEOUS. As a result, almost EVERY girl has the hots for him which makes my job much more difficult (if you're not following, my 'job' is to win him over).

We have always chatted on FB, msgs etc but last week things stepped up a little when he asked me to meet up with him when we went clubbing. So I did but when I got there, he was drunk and he then hooked up with another girl whom we work with (they work in the same store, I work in another) while I was standing about 10m from them... And afterward, he came over, kissed me on the head and asked if I was ok...(?)

He started talking to me as usual the next day and then proceeded to ask me out for coffee and said if I was heading out on the weekend that we should meet up (again).

I really like him but I don't want to embarrass myself thinking that he's into me if I'm just another 'blip on the radar', so to speak. I've also seen some photos of him and other girls on FB where they seem very intoxicated and very close (call me an over-analyzer, I can take it.. haha) He's not one of those guys who is fully aware of how many girls like him, he seems sort of ignorant to it TBH but I guess what I want to know is:

What do I take from the fact that he asked me out for coffee and to meet up multiple times?

And also, how can I be the girl who stands out from the rest? I'm an attractive girl (5ft 3", 130lbs) but I'm not the 'glamazon' that always looks like she's just stepped off a runway.

Guys and girls, I want your opinions and advice (not if they're nasty and belittling though, that's not promoting positivity!)
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Good advice guys,

After this past weekend, I have decided that I won't be the silly, drunk & stumbling girl just to grab his attention. I saw a girl behaving like that around him and all I could think was a) 'wow, how embarrassing for her...' and b) 'she is seriously going the wrong way about it if she's trying to express the fact that she is into him...'


I am STRONG, INDEPENDENT AND A CLASS ACT!
ALL the girls love him... how do I win him over?
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