does that mean that my game sucks? like maybe I'm awkward or something, or don't know how to create attraction even tho I have stuff working for me? I can't explain this phenomenon any other way...is there any hope for me? I'm tired of being single, it's actually getting to be quite depressing along with repeated failures of obtaining the women of my desires :/.
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At least you have had the guts to ask out someone...I'm still single and hopeless...I haven't even got the guts to tell any guy how I feel. And yes...I am pretty, funny, smart, and etc...I have decided to just be bold...tell guys I like them the minute I like them! I'm bound to get a guy that way...hopefully..lol. Join the club. When you get a girl...tell me your secret...so I can use that secret to get a guy. : / I've been depressed too...it takes all I have to try my best to keep the depression at bay or distract myself from it. But sometimes...it gets reallllllly bad. :( Good luck. =)...I'm not giving up...so you shouldn't either.
Aw! Don't worry, dude. I'm sure there are girls that like you, especially if they call you funny, handsome, and smart! Maybe they're just scared or shy. And if you think it's a problem of keeping them interested, maybe try different things. People seem to like spontaneity. At the same time, though, don't lose yourself in the pursuit of a girlfriend! With the things you don't like about your life, you should either change them or accept them. You'll find your match eventually :) don't lose hope and good luck!
well, you have to come off as an attractive person or be confident in yourself. that'll make you happier and make girls want to be around you all the time. now getting a girlfriend is another story. you have to hang out with that person a lot to let them know that you are there for them rather than expecting them to come to you. get her more comfortable around you, flirt a bit while getting her comfortable so that way, she will have a sense of interest from you. Also, if she sees no progress like no touching or feeling (like playing in her hair, tickling her, doesn't have to be super sexual) then she will see the relationship as "not going anywhere" and then they give up trying.
if a girl tells you that kind of stuff you have to make a move because she's definitely interested. you've already created attraction, you just have to make the first move on her (aka ask her out for dinner or whatever)
Very good question dude. Sounds similar. Actually what I figured out is that you and I don't have a problem with us its actually our fate that sucks & may be we are not allowed to get some yet in our lives. Really, I ve given up almost and this life,this world is a gamble & this world isn't for the straight forward people like us. Well, we can only hope lol