Make sure feet aren't pointed at her if I have to stop, make sure I glance but don't look too long, try to smile and if I can't get a smile to work, look away so as not to seem creepy or pull out my phone and check the time to assuage her fears that I might mean to harm her, if I do smile try to say "Hello" or the like, if I can't say hello or the word registers too late then try to look in a hurry so she doesn't think I am some sort of creep, make sure my hands aren't in my pockets, make sure my fingers are extended, thumb to the side as I walk to not seem aggressive, take a quick look at my surroundings so I don't box her in or corner her, accidentally, keep count in my head for every action to make sure eye contact is not maintained for longer than five seconds and I linger no longer than three near her.
Being not creepy around attractive girls is extraordinarily tiring. I don't care for it in long intervals.
Some girls have something about them that puts me at ease but most are extremely difficult to be around. I liken it to having a perfectionist parent who you have to watch yourself around at every moment since once they think you are a creep there is no coming back from it.
It depends for me.
After last year, it took me a while to trust women again, and it took a while before I felt my interest was accepted or even wanted. If someone looked at me, I looked away, acting like they didn't exist. It was all about being aloof or annoyed. I figured, if they felt I was annoyed by them first, I had the upper hand.
Now it's a little different. I still smile time to time. Say "hey" every once in a while. It's still hard for me to feel comfortable with it, though, but I push through that feeling.
Haha, I'm pretty obvious when I see a guy I think is cute; I'll give them a head-to-toe and back to see if they caught me. If so, I'll slightly **** my head, give a grin, and if they're super cute and smile back, I'll bat my eyes a few times, but then look away and act like I'm doing something interesting (like playing with my fingernails) and glance back after a little bit. I should add no guy has ever come over talk though. Pity.
Ok I'll either glance at them or not...if I do, I'll either give a blank expression or small smile based on how friendly they look...sometimes out of habit I'll just give a quick "closed mouth smile" like you said (so basically not a wide grin)...if the guy smiles at me first though, I'll give a bigger smile! :)
haha this just happened to me, we both obviously thought each other was cute and we both glanced, looked away, glanced again, and then we both turned around as we walked past. We both just started laughing
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I feel like I haven't the right to be in their presence and start to get slightly nervous. Kinda makes me feel like a dork. The Looney Toons of the abominable snow man oh gosh golly gee. type stuff.
I know I may be an adult but I get that every single time there is a cute girl I'm around...
Scotty McCreery - Trouble With Girls is the song that comes to my mind every time.
i will point and her and then me and then I will make the banging gesture with my arms while I trust mi hips...i know it sounds strange but it works...
A lot of guys will give me a "scantron" look (old-fashioned talk for that appreciative head-to-toe glance you get before they look you in the eye and smile). I've caught myself doing the same in some instances, but in most cases I just smile and look a guy straight in the eye. If he says "Hi" I reply. If not, at least I had the benefit of the eye candy.
distract them with a smile while I'm stealing their wallet
I look at them but I don't give a 'flirty look', just passing by that's all.
Depends if I'm in a hurry or not.
If I'm not then I give them a welcoming smile, like 'Hey there :D.'
Guess it depends what mood I'm in. Lately I just try not to let them see me looking. If. They look in my direction I try hard not to look back.
Sometimes I'm a little bolder. A year or two ago I was out to lunch with my mother and this stud was a few tables away and I'd tip my head so I could see around my mother and take it all in, Damn he was Yummy! I know he knew. I think he was having lunch with his mother too.
i ignore the sh*t out of them cause there's no point in even looking at a girl I'm not going to talk to
I look at them and while I pass by I smile at them, and keep walking but sometimes when I have the nerve I'll try and talk to them and flirt. But other times I just go on my way lol
I try to smile, but sometimes I get too shy to smile because I suck at smiling. What you just said is something that's great to do, I can do that sometimes, but it's easier said than done to be honest. Oh and yes eye contact is definitely first.
If I don't know her, say walking on the street, I usually make eye contact, but only for a brief while, then I panic and the voice in my head goes "look away! look away!" Not sure why it says that, but it does and I usually listen
If I know her, I make more constant eye contact and smile more, and try to hold a conversation to the best of my ability
I always look at the floor and have a little cheeky smile on my face whilst attempting to stare at them:L then hope that they don't see me looking like some sort of stalker who's giggling like they're on drugs :L
I just smile, but how would you like your girlfriends to react when she sees a handsome guy, passing by, sometimes I don't even want to look to not upset my BF?
Look on the floor and walk pass as I'm a shy person. But I will look back then have a smail on my face as seeing cute guys makes me happy lol
lol I asked a similar question to yours...im really shy but if I'm with friends I get ballsy and would smile at him with good eye contact however if iam alone I can't do it lol
Depends, sometimes I feel really happy and cheery and they smile and say hi back. other times I feel like sh*t and they sneer at me or look at my friends.
I will do the same thing like you. But sometimes, I feel shy why I see a cute guy, I will lower my head & hush to pass by. Make sure he will never notice me & I will turn around to see his back.
I look past them... because if we got together then the cuteness factor might make the room/mall/house/block/car/etc implode!
I pull down my pants. Let's just say people must think I'm funny because I get a few laughs. They're always like "haha you're so small!" and I think I'm supposed to take that as a compliment because I'm a pretty skinny guy while most of the country is obese...
When I pass by a cute guy or girl I keep my mouth shut. I keep my opinions to myself.
Why? I have to! I'm married.
I usually just act like I don't see them lol I get nervous so..or sometimes I just look back as I've already passed them.
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