During sex how can you tell if the guy cares about you or your just a hookup?

I know you should be able to tell if he cares about you when your not having sex but my situation is complicated..

So how can you tell?

Eye contact? Kissing? Calling you baby? Saying your mine? Goodbye hug and kiss before leaving? Holding hands during it?

Do any of those things sound like I was more than just a one night stand?

Anymore examples?


Most Helpful Girl

  • There's no way of telling this during sex. It's what he does after and before. You can find clues about a guy's intentions before you sleep with him. Does he immediately start hitting on you when you meet him or soon after? Or does he take his time and get to know you? Is he jealous when other guys pay attention to you? Or he doesn't care? Is he interested in your personality, or your looks and having fun?

    After sex, is he quickly out the door? Does he call you again?