Does my cousin like me?

[Anonymous]

I need some help guys...im in a very weird situation...

so I met my first cousin for the first time ever in our lives 2 months ago. he is 25 and I'm 22. He and his younger brother were both really nice to me. Its like the 3 of us have everything in common. Then my older cousin started acting strange after a few days...Here's some stuff that he has been doing for a while now..freaks me out:

- hugs me almost everyday.

- plays with my hair.

- lifts me in the air from behind or on his shoulder.

- stares a LOT.

- pokes me almost all the time.

- asks me if I missed him while we were away.

- tease me all the time.

once we were out grocery shopping and he just came from behind and hugged me and put his lips in my hair. when I said I will be leaving soon and go back to university he said he doesn't want me to leave, and that he won't let me leave, forever!

and he says weird things like "you yourself are a quarter to nine. think about it." is he rating me or what? :/

anyway I feel grossed out and weird. I hope I'm imagining things. please help me here guys...Thanks in advance!

[GoodEyeMight]

It does sound like he is into you, that is how Girlfriends/Boyfriends act when they are around each other.

I get how you are grossed out, the thought behind it...

Honestly.

Just tell him to stop. It's weird for a cousin to do that. If he respects you he won't do that to you anymore.

Or to be nicer about it, just talk to him and ask him about it. And ask why is he doing these things.

Or you can find a girl for him, one of your friends maybe.

Hope this helps!

[Asker]

I know right! Yeah ill try and do something on these lines. Thanks a lot! :)

[GoodEyeMight]

Glad to help, if you have anything else, be sure to message me and I'll help you with anything! (:

[hit_0_0]

unless you notice him that way with other females in your family, it kinda sounds like he's into you. that behavior is a little odd for someone that's your cousin I'd think.

but if that's the case though it's probably to never actually knowing you until very recently. so while you're related, to him it's kinda like you're another regular girl that's a friend (who he hopefully doesn't want to become his gf)

[Asker]

Im the only girl 1st cousin he has..

What you said could be a reason, I agree..

[hit_0_0]

I think if there's a reason to it that that's probably it. I doubt he met you and was thinking how bad he wanted to fck his new cousin. I think internally he feels like you aren't really a cousin because you're so new to him. now the question is..how to avoid this or get it to stop?

[Asker]

I try my best to remind him every now and then that he is like a brother to me.. I wasn't prepared to this kind of behavior from him..his younger brother who is 20 behaves exactly the way a cousing should..i don't know what happened to my older cousin.. Lol!

[hit_0_0]

maybe over time it'll start to chill out as he gets to realizing that you guys are related and it just can't happen. in the mean time if the stuff he does is really bothering you I'd try to kinda keep more space from him as best you can

[Asker]

Omg yeah..! He pinched my cheeks once and later that day licked my knuckles just to bother me..i was horrified!

[hit_0_0]

start acting more like a guy or something around him and hopefully he'll get turned off by that haha. he seems like a playful type of person so it might be a little harder to get him to back off some :\

[Asker]

Hahaha...yeah ill probably do that. Thanks a lot for your help though! :)

[toouglytobeloved]

hes a guy (prabably alone and desperate for a girlfriend)... he loves you ... whether your his cousin or not ... if you don't like it ...simple...stay away ... or tell his (your aunt and uncle) or your parents about it

a guy can fall in love (have feelings for) there cousins its normal and very common

probably not on a girl's side tho

[Asker]

Or maybe its just him, because his younger brother is as perfect a cousin as he can be...

[LittleKelvin]

Maybe he's just treating you like you're his baby sister or something. Cause you two never met for a long time and he doesn't have the so-call sister bonding and he doesn't know what does it feels like to have a sister probably? And if he is from an all boy schopl means he never seen a girl in his lifetime until you two met.

[Asker]

Thats what I thought at first, but he already has a sister and went to co-ed school and university. Lol.

[Dime1996]

it sure does sound like he likes you but to be sure(if youve ever had one) is that how your boyfriend/s treated you before they got with you if not then ask some of your girl friends about how theirs acted. hope this helped and Getcha' Pull!