Is it true when they say, "sorry I have a boyfriend?"

[Double_O_69]

I'll see a cute girl shopping, and I'll walk up to her and say how's her day going, has she went to school around the area, SMALL TALK. Then I say do you text? She says yes, and I say cool, give me your number so I can send you a text sometime. Then they say I'm sorry but I have a boyfriend? Is it true? Is this a test? there's only a limited time so I can't really talk to her forever. Do I have to say are you lying look into my eyes and tell me if you really have BF? Or is it a nice of saying sorry your rejected lol. Or its true!?

If it is a test do I do, or what am I doing wrong. THANK U!

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+1 y

How would I get her number the right way!? :---] [^_^]

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+1 y

Your folks are right either they do or they don't want to make you feel bad because you are not their type. I thought you had to do a magic trick to get her number but no you just have to keep asking girls till one gives you her number. Its a numbers game. Thank u!

[sarcasticbella]

I was saying I had a boyfriend for years when I really didn't. I just got tired of being approached on the street by guys wanting my number, even if I though they were cute, I didn't want to give a complete stranger my number, he could be a weirdo who calls me obsessively. And by the way your coming out and asking for the number too soon, work on your approach. If I thought a guy was cute or I liked what he had to say and the way he approached me, id give him my email or screen name so we could talk long enough for me to determine if he's someone I would want to have my number.

[Anonymous]

It could be either, really.

Making small talk with someone DOES NOT mean you are interested in a romantic relationship. Lots of people shoot the breeze with men, women, children ... We aren't supposed to be able to read your mind and know that you're trying to get some action when you make small talk with us, so chill out about your "limited time."

Besides, dude. If she's lying or if she's telling the truth, she doesn't wanna be with you if she tells you she has a boyfriend. There is really no way to know. But either way, it doesn't matter. Move on, bro.

[Double_O_69]

I can't chill out with my limited time, they always are in a rush it seems.

[Opinion Owner]

I thought you were freaking about "wasting" your time... If she says she has a boyfriend, move on. Simple.

[Double_O_69]

oh okay :] thanks. Even if she is lying what do I do to get her number the right way?

[Opinion Owner]

You don't! Don't waste your time and energy trying to text girls who don't want you to text them. Say, "Ok, it was nice to meet you" and try with a different girl.

[Double_O_69]

Oh I see, awesome, so I just keep asking a different girl until one fo them gives you her number. Is it better if I were to just walk up to her and say, "hello, how are you? Do you text? Can I get your number?" SImple and skip the small talk for a date.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not sure. I had a guy get my number like that at a resturant and it worked, though. He said he noticed me and wanted to know if I was single because he'd like to take me out for dinner sometime. After that, he let me know a little bit about himself and asked me some questions and then let me get back to my friends. The relationship didn't work out for other reasons, but we dated for about a month.

[lovepiano25]

they could have a boyfriend and they might be rejecting you. I tend to tell guys truth. I had a stange guy ask me randomly if I had a boyfriend and I told him I didn't and then he asked me if he could have my number and I said no because it was a little too awkward for me to give my phone # to a guy who knows me for two seconds. most girls do feel awkward to giving numbers to complete stranger. why don't you ask out someone at your work or at school or at church or organization.

[Double_O_69]

Well ha ha good question but I'm just out to have some crazy fun with women. I don't want people to know that I'm out having some sneaky freaky deaky fun with these girls lol.

[ICantStop]

If a girl says she has a boyfriend, in most cases, she just not into you. Or her boyfriend is a total control freak and doesn't allow her to talk to other guys.

[Operations]

In some cases it's true, and others it isn't. And some may just say it because they're uncomfortable.

[Cuddle_Muffin]

If you are unattractive or wack to her...she becomes taken. Lol you can see throught it if she was lying...im a flirt so I take their numbers and not call. Or give them a fake number...because the boyfriend excuse follows up with...i bet he can't treat you like I can..or lets be friends trust me I'm a good boy...lol I usually say I'm homosexual. Its easier.

[Anonymous]

don't say anything. if she says she has a boyfriend, take her word and go. she's a stranger, and sometimes when a stranger starts talking to me I don't know how to get away nicely so I keep talking for a while. But saying she has a boyfriend means don't push it.

[Opinion Owner]

in all honesty I don't feel comfortable giving my number out to strangers in random places. a lot of girls don't because there's a lot of sh*t out there.

[vmw2008]

She may or may not really have a boyfriend, some girls lie about this some girls don't. But no, it's not a test. If she's lying, she's definitely not interested and pushing further will only make it worse.

[Anonymous]

She may actually have a Boyfriend and is nice to be saving you some heartache. She may also NOT have a Boyfriend and just be trying to save you the heartache of feeling rejected. "It's not you, it's me." sounds fake...

[moviedude714]

very likely could be or lying to let you down softly

[IHateBeingaMan]

most likely they are taken