Have you ever became attracted to a guy after he became hot?

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Say he was chubby/fat before and you've always liked him as a platonic friend. The next time you saw him he was just very rugged/muscular with a new confidence.

I'm just asking because I've recently changed a great deal after a terrible breakup (very lean/muscular and improved myself in every way).

Now my crush has always been friendly with me on a platonic level, but ever since I've changed she's began to break the touch barrier (she would touch my back/shoulder and especially my arms a lot more). She can't even look at me straight in the eyes anymore; she would look down and then peak up again at me or just avert her gaze.

Does this sound like she's beginning to become attracted to me or?

prepster25 · Accepted Answer

I know this situation sounds like your friend is somewhat shallow, but who isn't? Do you like a girl who wears braces, has acne, and is socially awkward? If yes, then you're a great person and congrats! But if not, that's fine. People are naturally attracted others that have more aesthetic value.

I'd just like to say that, if your friend did not judge you when you were "unfit" as a friend, then she is a decent person already. We have here, and I'm pointing to myself, people who judge who to become friends with based on appearance.

The question now is, do you or did you like her romantically before your "transformation"? Are you able to look past the fact she is interested in dating you only after you toned up?

AamuYami · Accepted Answer

I guess she is. Well, it's not only about boys, right? When a bookworm or a tomboy finally starts blooming, her guy friends do get interested. What's wrong if the same applies to the vice versa? She liked you as a friend, now she sees a great change to the better and it gets her thinking. And if she can't look in your eyes straight she's obviously into you. Don't blame her for being indifferent before and if you like her, go on.

confused98 · Accepted Answer

yes. happens all the time. I actually have a friend like that and I didn't really pay him much attention before but omfg he is like PERFECT now. yup people are going to look at you differently now but its not necessarily shallow because she liked your personality enough before to be friends with you except now she is like attracted to you physically if that makes sense.

Bowesy · Accepted Answer

Well everyone is shallow to some extent, she was your friend because you weren't her type or whatever it's called.

But now you are considered attractive because you're visually attractive to people.

The good thing is seeing as she was your friend before your improvement she has come to learn of your personality and how you act. Stay like this; don't let anything like "Women now like me because I look 'the bomb' so I can act how I like." affect the way you act.

But in answer to your question bluntly- It definitely seems like she's attracted to you. It may only be physically, or she likes both your personality and physical appearance. You can never be certain. But your odds sound good.

FlamingoHunter · Accepted Answer

It seems like you sparked her interest on the emotional/personality level and your new physical physique is just the icing to the cake. She definitely wants a bite now.

I've experienced the same thing. A lot of people enjoy my personality, but I've, for the most part, have been overweight throughout my life and lacked confidence in the relationship sector because of it. I bet the big thing is the confidence. Although I look really good these days (compared to how I used to look), the confidence is what a lot of women look for.

It definitely feels nice. But make sure you don't let this get to your head.

john5246 · Answer

maybe it's you that's changed and now you monitor her eye movments a lot more, we always tend to think the change is in the other person

she could just like touching your arms because they're more muscular now (I know it sounds crazy but it's possible)

so now that you're such a hotty why don't you just get some other girls instead of this girl? Why chase her?

Anonymous · Answer

If she's really your friend first, she's possibly shy/embarrassed for being attracted to the new eye candy... It's hard to absorb a physical 180 without reacting in any way.

If you're willing to risk the friendship to do something about it, the summer in a great body's the best time to do it...

FlaggLives · Answer

I wouldn't see why not. Congrats on bettering yourself.

Gervin · Answer

i think it's time to get laid. Dude if girl does not look into your eyes this means you have to come to here on the street. Look in her eyes as confident as you can, then fleeting smile and a kiss. An she is wet about you.

yopyopyop · Answer

It happened to me after my diet. Suddendly she started to find me attractive, after rejecting me when I was fat. But of course, I told her to eat sh*t :)

Design_x · Answer

I'm almost 100% certain that this is the case. You have no idea how far physical attraction can go. And on top of knowing you as a person already, she has definitely fallen for you.

XNikkieXx · Answer

Every girl likes a toned guy so this girl may have really liked your personality and since you've changed she could start to have the physical attraction

livi23 · Answer

Well sex appeal helps. Since you changed you've probably got more appeal than before, and that's what attracts women. So yeah she's probably a little attracted to you now.

BeautifulMischief · Answer

Sounds like she likes you man and yeah its happened to me.

Prof_Don · Answer

Are you bitter at all because she showed no "interest" in you before, but is showing it now?

verbatim · Answer

she definitely is

Anonymous · Answer

never seen.

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