So there is a guy I am friends with for quite a while. Somehow I have always had a little crush on him but never felt like he would be interested in me this way. But well, on the one hand he makes fun of me being reserved and doing ballet and such, but on the other hand he always makes some innuendos that he could not resist me and would be under my spell.
Up to now I was insecure and did not react to this too much. But now he even said he would be my slave---in the presence of others! He acts as if it would be for fun and so do all the others, but I'm quite sure he wants to throw himself at me with this. We were like:
"...how about me being your slave?"
"If you think..."
"Don't you?"
"Don't know, for how long?"
"For as long as you please."
"Seriously?"
"Yeah"
"Be careful what you wish for - you just might get it"
"So you're in?"
"You really wanna be my slave, huh?"
"Yeah!"
"So be it..."
So what do I do now? I never knew how to tell him that I really liked him, so this whole affair would be an opportunity to get closer to him, I guess. But I don't know what he expects. It's obvious that he would like it if I was dominating him a little bit but I don't want to overdo it. I guess for him it's just a nice way to break the spell. So what are some sexy but innocuous things I can do?
To make him really affectionate I maybe should allow some "closeness", don't you think? Do you think he would like to find himself tied to my bed? But what shall I do to him then, if I don't want to have intercourse yet? Maybe he would be in for some intense teasing?! I guess it's all about making him feel to be at my mercy really bad. Or would this, to the contrary, scare him off? Also I think it would be great if he would experience it to be just very very relaxing to be allowed to completely surrender to me. But how relaxing could it be if I would not release him from his innermost pressure? But I really don't want to give myself to him, yet. Maybe, if I'd really tie him down and tease him to hell (which will, for him, hopefully be heaven), I may just grant him a hand job? Would that be reprehensible in any way? I would definitely not count that as having sex but I think this would make him be fixated on me even more---and isn't that exactly what it's all about? :D
And, last but not least, what about that "for as long as you please" thing? He really said that! :) However, I fear it will come to a bad end if there is no opportunity for him to get out. But still I doubt he would like me to say "it's over", since this would be like I was quitting his fantasy or something. Maybe I should just turn the tables and tell him that he is merely some kind of an applicant to that position and that he must pass a probation period of a month or so before he will be appointed permanently ;)
Maybe I'm over thinking this but for me it is an affair of the heart, and I'm a little bit nervous, too.
Either way, any advice is appreciated :)
Up to now I was insecure and did not react to this too much. But now he even said he would be my slave---in the presence of others! He acts as if it would be for fun and so do all the others, but I'm quite sure he wants to throw himself at me with this. We were like:
"...how about me being your slave?"
"If you think..."
"Don't you?"
"Don't know, for how long?"
"For as long as you please."
"Seriously?"
"Yeah"
"Be careful what you wish for - you just might get it"
"So you're in?"
"You really wanna be my slave, huh?"
"Yeah!"
"So be it..."
So what do I do now? I never knew how to tell him that I really liked him, so this whole affair would be an opportunity to get closer to him, I guess. But I don't know what he expects. It's obvious that he would like it if I was dominating him a little bit but I don't want to overdo it. I guess for him it's just a nice way to break the spell. So what are some sexy but innocuous things I can do?
To make him really affectionate I maybe should allow some "closeness", don't you think? Do you think he would like to find himself tied to my bed? But what shall I do to him then, if I don't want to have intercourse yet? Maybe he would be in for some intense teasing?! I guess it's all about making him feel to be at my mercy really bad. Or would this, to the contrary, scare him off? Also I think it would be great if he would experience it to be just very very relaxing to be allowed to completely surrender to me. But how relaxing could it be if I would not release him from his innermost pressure? But I really don't want to give myself to him, yet. Maybe, if I'd really tie him down and tease him to hell (which will, for him, hopefully be heaven), I may just grant him a hand job? Would that be reprehensible in any way? I would definitely not count that as having sex but I think this would make him be fixated on me even more---and isn't that exactly what it's all about? :D
And, last but not least, what about that "for as long as you please" thing? He really said that! :) However, I fear it will come to a bad end if there is no opportunity for him to get out. But still I doubt he would like me to say "it's over", since this would be like I was quitting his fantasy or something. Maybe I should just turn the tables and tell him that he is merely some kind of an applicant to that position and that he must pass a probation period of a month or so before he will be appointed permanently ;)
Maybe I'm over thinking this but for me it is an affair of the heart, and I'm a little bit nervous, too.
Either way, any advice is appreciated :)
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