I'm asking what I should do next I like her too I feel like I can reconcile maybe ?
any help thanks
Wait wait dude your going too slow in the beginning and now your rushing too fast
Ive done the same as you did last year and I got no reaction myself and I know why
Because I was too afraid of asking her in person before (altough my situation was diffrent from yours however.. I did went to the girl but never asked her out, or her number)
But yeah the point is she probably doesn't read her Facebook messages since a lot of guys send her meaningless messages so it could be oh another one, click square, delete
But keep in mind if she did read it you caught her by surprise, huh he does actually like me but ge didn't show this in person? "confused" is what she probably is right now and I thonk calling her would make things worse for you
There is a huge diffrence here between what I did and what you can do and I cant
I couldn't ask her if she read my message in person but you can and that is what you should do
Sooo should I call or... I won't see her summer is here :l
Well... In this case wait till summer is over and ask her in person I'm positove if you called her you freak her out
Well if you know where she lives its better to make a fool out of yourself and ask her there then to call her while your friend gave you her number
But if your friend is so polite to help you ask him to call her for you
And you be around when he calls and don't say anything
Here is what he should say: well my friend (you, ofcourse) talked to me about sending you messages trough Facebook to introduce himself, because summer is here he can't do it in person since he won't be able to see you again for awhile. But between us he kinda likes you and wants to get to know you and its driving me insane.. Do you mind if I give him your phone number?
He could text her too if that would make him feel better about it (and if he thinks he wil screw up.. I guess a text would be better)
I kinda just wanna risk calling and be like "My friend gave me your number I risk calling or else I would a regretted it later", I tried contacting but I see you kinda ignored or you didn't notice it so what your deal" shell probably lie and I would say BULLSHIT!
Well if you do that then you will lose the girl trust me
Even I would freak out after getting a call like that, you wanna beat her up for not responding when summer is over?
So I guess I shouldn't call or should I. Its a risk to call maybe get to know her a bit let her know I'm interested, flirt a little etc.. but at the same time it would be creepy calling
Thats what your messages over Facebook where creepy eneugh and you would only make it worse by calling, no matter if she read it or not
The fact is we guys think its harmless but a girl that feels uncomfortable (in her case she is shy) would become uncomfortable after these messages.. That's why your friend asking for you like I told you seems like a cowardly thing to do but for her its way more comforting and its also to reassure her that you do not have any bad intentions to make her uncomfort
Thats a good idea man
besides all your friend does is getting the point across for you that you like her and you want to get to know you but since she didn't respond you are getting depressed over it.. And your friend doesn't like that (this will give her the impression she hurt you a little and if she likes you she won't stop your friend for giving the number)
And most importantly, if she tought the fb messages where creepy, she will be reassured you meant well
Yeah I know.. Remember I did the same stupid thing as you lol
Then again it was going great with her (talking to her, she giving me compliments, asking for my help) then right before I was gonba ask her out.. My boss gives me promotion and sends me to another store and I was like I never see her again so ill message her
Well 3 weeks later my boss was sick and she comes in the store and there we go.. "you lied to me"
Atleast I know she liked me and she confirmed it but my boss helped me screw it
lol I guess I learned my lesson and take advantage when a girl gives you mixed signals. I was thinking how does the idea of calling and just being direct?
Uh...leave her alone. 4 seconds...? If she ignored your messages, she's ignoring you for a reason. Keep pushing it and she can press charges. You didn't even get her number from her so...don't call. That's just creepy, illegal, and makes you liable for harassment. Doesn't even look like you two had a regular conversation...what are you basing this crush off of besides the 4 second (...) stare?
Well if you sent her a Facebook message, two for that matter, and she ignored it I think her interest in you has faded. If I were her and a guy I liked or was even a little interested in messaged me I would not have ignored that. My advice would be to not text her and move on, but if you really feel like there is something there then text her and if she doesn't text you back then move on.
maybe she's not sure what to do or to make out of what you said in the message. how long ago did all this happen (the message)? give it a little bit and if your still wanting to know her, just send her a basic note such as hi how are you etc...if nothing them just let her go.
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