How long should you wait to ask out a girl?
I see her once a week and I've only talked to her a couple times. I'm not 100% sure she's interested or if she's just being friendly. I don't want...
Most Helpful Guy
The next time you see her, ASK HER OUT!
Or else someone else who thrives on thought more than action WILL ask her out, and you'll be pissed for waiting so long.
This is one of the biggest mistake a guy makes with females. There IS no "perfect moment". Take the date itself (assume you will be told "yes"), as the "getting to know her".
Would you rather get to know her while dating her (and she's "off the market")...
...or get to know her as a friend, someone else can ask her out freely and she can say yes, all while running the risk of being FRIENDZONED?!?!?!?!
Think about it.
Frankly...why are you waiting to ask her out?
What Girls Said 2
Ask her out next time you see her. There's no such thing as too soon, she either already has some interest in you or she doesn't. That's not going to change by waiting. If she's going to say no, I can bet she would say no regardless of whether you asked now or later. Same doesn't go for the other way around though...if she has interest and thinks you only like her as a friend, she might pursue/be pursued by someone else and then it'll be too late, so might as well go for it!
What Guys Said 8
i'd say don't wait more than a week
I don't see how it would benefit you to wait.
I think you just need to develop the confidence and go for it the next time you see her.
Asking a girl out right away is not creepy at all. Women like a bold man. Some profesional PUAs have turned the "direct approach" into an art form.
You should have asked her out the 1st time you met her; you have to be faster than your competition.
Don't wait...but keep it informal...ice cream cone or coffee or something light and easy...if that goes well then maybe try lunch or something...would be different if you knew her...but I used to try to take some stranger to a more formal setting...it is really intimidating..o.O
The sooner the better. The longer you leave it, the more likely you'll be f-zoned.
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