How can you tell if a female bartender is legitimately flirting with you?

[Anonymous]

well the question is up there. Are their any ways to tell, if they are flirting for tips or being real

[septimus]

not just from looks or words, imo. I've bartended a few times and we really are just being friendly. guys who've been drinking mistake that for something else. if she gives you her number, that's a different story.

[aMuse]

Yeah, get to know her outside of the scene... While she's working, she's working. When people are happy and drinking, she's making money. That's her job.

[Cantremember]

Girls flirt for fun. It doesn't have to be for tips nor to "get somewhere".

So there is no "legitimate flirting".

[Anonymous]

She doesn't. They're like strippers. Make you feel good about yourself and take your money.