A little background about her-- She mentioned that she didn't want to move in with her boyfriend this year but had to or she would have to move back to alaska. From what I can tell she seems unhappy with her relationship but I'm not really sure.
But the problem I have is that every time I talk to her she always complains about him. Just today she said "i was going to hang out with a group of friends last night but my boyfriend pissed me off" I said, "why? what did he do?" and she brushed it off and changed the subject. Also, the other day I texted her she asked me how work was that night. I said "not bad, I got drunk and relaxed" and she replied "haha nice that's always fun. I felt sick last night and my boyfriend had a cold so it wasn't the best night but oh well."
So the other day I asked if she wanted to grab some drinks this weekend for my birthday and hang out with my buddy and his girlfriend. She said sure. I'm kind of clueless as to why she always brings up her boyfriend though. Is it because she wants a friend to complain to? Or is she interested in hooking up with me? I don't want to be in the friend zone. Should I escalate and starting being more physical (touching and stuff) or should I ask her flat out what she wants?
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