Anyway, when we parted ways after drinks last week, he announced that he thought I was awesome and enjoys my company but he's not looking for anything serious. I don't get it: we didn't do anything physically, I wasn't even flirting with him...anyway, I was stunned and pretty hurt. I didn't say anything in response to what he said, except to say he'd see me in class (in response to his question), and good night. I'm not looking for a relationship necessarily, but I was hopeful. Frankly, I hadn't thought about where things were going, beyond "I like him and want to hang out." I totally understand not being ready for a relationship, and I appreciate him not wanting to lead me on; but I don't understand why he freaked out!
I didn't speak to him all weekend, but after we had class on Monday, I went up to him and told him that I was startled because I hadn't thought that far ahead yet; that I was considering all the possibilities but I figured it would sort itself out; and that it's cool because I'm not sure what I want yet. He seemed receptive, if shy as normal, and he apologized for "starting things off this way." So it's not over? I still like him a lot but I'm not that invested anymore...
Should I wait for him to ask me to hang out again? or should I casually tell him about a fair I'm going to next weekend and ask if he wants to come? I'm super busy this week (other men heheh) so I wouldn't ask til the middle of next week.
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