Why is it that some girls always get hit on and approached, yet others never do?

[Anonymous]

I am wondering why some girls always are getting hit on and approached and stared at, but other girls struggle to even make eye contact with guys?

I mean in all honestly...it can't be that the ones that do not get approached are simply ugly, because I know many very attractive, sweet, kind, funny as heck girls that never, ever get asked out.

So what is it?

[Margarita]

Because men ask out girls that are easy to get! Usually attractive girls are hard to get. Plus if a girl makes an eye contact that shows she is intrested a guy will make a move, but the girl that don't get approached don't show interest so the guy thinks that she might not like him so he doesn't bother to make a move and maybe get rejected!

[Asker]

That's not always true....in my experience eye contact means nothing to a guy.

[Margarita]

It doesn't have to be exactly eye contact, its just an example!

[xxangel1990xx]

I have no clue but you forgot about the girls who get stared at but never approached. That's really annoying too.

[Poseidon17]

I agree with Margarita, some girls put out a "don't talk to me" vibe. Guys will lean more towards approaching girls who look like they are friendly and open to meeting people. when I'm at a party or bar, I can clearly see some girls who are never smiling and have blank expressions when you make eye contact.

[Anonymous]

I hit on the ones that stand out. So either they are attractive or something catches my eye.