I asked her out twice year ago and she turned me down. Now she likes me?

[Anonymous]

I had this girl in a glass a year ago and I really got a crushed on her. I asked her out twice and she turned me down. And she started sitting as far away from me as she could so I gave up.

Then I saw her at the beginning of this year hanging around school and I went to talk to her and she was nice and said she was trying to remember where she knew me from.

I don't have class with her, but I saw her coming out of a class like a week later and went to go talk to her. I guess I still like her. I randomly hugged her and she looked shocked but hugged me back.

Now when she sees me walk by she gets excited and waves. She ran up to me the other day and pointed at me and was saying you! you! And so I said you don't know my name... its so and so... then she said yes I knew that but I don't think she did.

She is acting like she wants me to ask her out now and I don't know what to do. I mean she did give me her number a year ago and I wonder if she still has the texts from when I tried to text her back then on her phone. I also find it weird she is suddenly acting like she likes me and didn't act like she liked me a year ago.

What should I do?

[Prescribed_By_Me]

some girls end up liking guys after the guy stops pursuing them...

then again its been a year or two...

people can do a lot of growing up in that time...maybe she feels she should have given you a chance or found you more interesting than she did back than.

than again...maybe you have changed...

perhaps you have changed in style, personality, etc you just may seem more attractive to her now.

or maybe she doesn't remember your name but hopes you remember hers...

its not really fun when you find that your no longer being pursued by someone that once crushed or admired you.

If you want to pursue her again go for it..your interested in her enough to want to know why she's acting that way...so I'm getting at you may still be interested.

I can't really tell you what to do? only that if it were me I would look at it this way... I couldn't really wait on someone to suddenly be interested in me at this time and then suddenly uninterested at another. especially if they can't even remember my name.

good luck though,

tam

[ao1ds]

If you like her, go for it. I know it hurts to be rejected, but it also hurts to let an opportunity pass that you later regret. Maybe she regrets things, maybe she doesn't. In the end, it doesn't matter. If you still like her, and want to give it a chance, go for it. The worst you can get is a no. I've survived the guy who I thought was the love of my life marrying someone else, so you can handle the rejection if she ultimately does it again. The pain doesn't last forever.

[saysrae]

girls change there mind a lot. just because she didn't like you then doesn't mean she won't like you now. if you like her go for it.

[OfAfricandescent]

If she doesn't remember your name, how much can she like you? If I like someone I make sure I remember their name. If you could put more info on this question that would be great. But I suspect she is using you for an ego boost. I may be wrong, but if she likes you, she should know your name.

And what has changed from the time you first started talking to her and now? If she didn't contact you a year ago on the mobile and hasn't contacted you now, I would think that she deleted your number.

[saysrae]

that's not really true. I was on a convention for this youth organization I'm in once and there was this guy I saw that I thought was really cute, and I started crushing on I was selling shirts and he bought one from me, and also told me his name. by the next day I completely forgot both that I had talked to him, and that I learned his name, even though I still had the crush on him. I didn't end up remembering that I had met him already though until the next day when he wore the shirt I sold him

[OfAfricandescent]

@saysrae. How long were you in this organization with this guy?

[Tripz]

Fact: Some girls don't know what they want till its too late

If your interested in her, go for it!

If your not, move on buddy!

[mcbme]

Did she do homework on you to find real name. reason money or fame. ok I would say she probably did remember second meet but I think looking for the rainbow. but who am I just a thought.

[anonymousbastard]

Its a trap run.