How much eye contact do you make with attractive people?

[sikoo31]

Do you make more eye contact with attractive people, or with ugly people?

Why?

If you do make prolonged eye contact with an attractive person, what does it mean?

-Are you trying to make it clear that you think they're attractive?

-Just looking cause they're looking?

-Or are you like a deer in headlights?(you don't know what to do so you just keep looking)

Reason I ask is, there's this very pretty(if you've seen 'girls' picture Jessa) girl at my school, and 3 times so far, she's walked by, I've looked at her, she's caught me looking, and she's made prolonged eye contact with me. Its like that eye contact from the movies where you just feel like if you're ever alone together, sh*t's gonna happen.

I'm pretty sure she finds me attractive at least, I'm thinking she wants me to talk to her, but I'm not entirely sure if her looking at me like that means she wants me or she's just looking to see if I'll look away or what.

I'm gonna talk to her one day, that's for sure. But I want real expectations as to what she'll say when I do.

I predict sex(amazing sex).

What you think?

Updates

+1 y

No one gave me advice about this girl tho...

[ManaX]

Depends on the situation:

If they are already starting I'll stare at them back.

If their body language is giving them away, I'll look em' straight in the eye and then look out of the corner to see it they are still looking.

If I've met them through a friend and we have an excuse to talk, I'll give them more attention/face time but I won't continually look a them. Just be friendly.

If I'll never see them again and they are glancing/looking, I'll glance/look back, maybe smile and leave it at that.

I do not look at guys looking at me that I don't find attractive. I will make eye contact with anyone though, I'm confident a good looking guy doesn't phase me.

[sikoo31]

What you mean "doesn't phase me"?

[ManaX]

I have begun to feel nothing but a tweak of attraction for when I see an attractive guy. It affects no part of me though, I don't get butterflies/become shy/feel insecure/become self aware. Nothing. Instead My efforts go into seeing whether they are showing any signs of flirting with me/liking me or not. Regardless, there's more to a man than his body/face, so even if he does/doesn't it means he is/isn't slightly shallow.

[sikoo31]

Ok I get you. Sounds good, more girls should be like you.

[Snow123]

I'm extremely shy, so I get really flustered when it comes to making eye contact with a really attractive guy on the street and tend to purposely look anywhere but them. Same kind of goes for all random people I pass on the street, but more-so with the guys I find attractive.

If I'm in a conversation with a really attractive person though, I don't have any problems making consistent eye contact because that's just what you do.

[sikoo31]

You don't look shy at all haha, its pretty surprising that you say that.

[Snow123]

I know :P When people first meet me, my appearance + (extreme shyness) usually comes off as "stuck up" but, it's really just shyness and awkward social skills : / haha.

[sikoo31]

haha its the pretty face; people think you're too good for them, then they think you think you're too good for them too.

[MyNameIs_]

I practically stare at attractive guys ha ha -- but not in a creepy way! Just in a flirty "I see you there" kind of way.

I also notice that most people stare deeply into my eyes. My friend told me he does it because he can't look away because they're so peculiar! I do that with unique/different but still very attractive people. So that could be another reason why people make much eye contact with attractive people.

[sikoo31]

What color are your eyes?

[MyNameIs_]

My eyes are clear-looking. Like a deep grayish brown. They're hard to describe haha

[sikoo31]

Pic?

[MyNameIs_]

I can message you so you can see some

[sikoo31]

The site doesn't allow messaging unless we're 'friends' for some dumb reason.

[adamcdavis]

I was drunk last night and gave some hot girl prolonged eye contact as she was sitting in some lounge area in outside area of a club as I walked by club and she stared back and gave me air kiss as I walked by lol. Usually doing that does not work out so well though or I look away if I'm sober lol.

[sikoo31]

Haha dam. Did you go talk to her?

[adamcdavis]

nope just walked right by lol. Would have had to wait like at least 35 minutes to get in club lol. I still probably should have talked as I walked by or something lol.

[sikoo31]

At least said hey or something haha

[WoIIie]

My eye contact in general sucks so I'm not qualified to answer this question.

Though I will say that out of all the girls I've been with, it started with solid eye contact right away. Never have I avoided eye contact with a girl and eventually became more than aquaintances.

[sikoo31]

Yeah I can see how that's happened.

[mashura]

I make eye contact with everyone. Reason being because its a display if confidence. No I'm not very confident but I can pull it off with certain people. Also I had serious confidence issues as a teen so I literally had to force myself to look people in the eye. Staring conveys many things the first being interest. So she is obviously interested enough to look. Don't put off talking to her for too much longer. She may get tired.

[sikoo31]

Why do you pretend to be confident?

Yeah I guess Ima have to do something soon.

[mashura]

We are never as confident as we would like to be. I'm the child of a rough home life and being seriously bullied in school. It took a toll on how I see myself and how I feel others see me. Its been difficult but I'm slowly getting back what I lost.

[sikoo31]

But why put up a front?

[mashura]

Bc I'm good at lol. At least to a point.

[sikoo31]

Hm, ok.

[lily9302]

I make eye contact a lot more with guys I find attractive. I like to look at there eyes and I think it's a good hint to them that I think they're cute.

[sikoo31]

Do you look at them a certain way?

[lily9302]

Just kind of with smiling eyes.. I don't really know how to describe it, but it's definitely not a creepy stare.

[sikoo31]

Haha alright.

[mangue]

A LOT! When I talk to someone attractive I want look the person right in the eyes for like ever haha. I just do it automatically. So basically, if I'm attracted to someone I'm talking to - yes I keep eye contact.

[Tigurinn2]

And if you're not talking to him?

[mangue]

Then I'm glancing and trying to make eye contact. If he isn't giving any response I give up and move on lol.

[sikoo31]

Do you ever smile at them?

[mangue]

Yes, and laugh sometimes.

[sikoo31]

lol ok

[thisGUYknows]

with attractive girls I'll make eye contact sometimes on accident. but if they return the eye contact for too long I punk out sometimes >_< depends how sober I am lol.

[ShyAndPetiteAsian]

What is ''punk out''?Thanks.

[thisGUYknows]

shy away

[sikoo31]

haha I get you

[Anonymous]

I like to give em bedroom eyes. gaze right through them. Break it if they look away, and of course when talking and stuff not just standing there staring. Depends what I'm saying, or her saying, how important it is, etc.

Forget an invitation, you don't need it. You better approach her soon. The longer you wait, the less of a good impact it will be.

[sikoo31]

Dammit you're right.

[TurbulentDan12]

I really don't have a problem making eye contact with attractive people. Sometimes if I get caught staring I'll do the "quick turn away" but in general checking out someone shouldn't be something to be ashamed of.

[sikoo31]

I don't think it should be either.

[fefe884]

well because of some guys' thoughts when a girl gives them eye-contact, I think it's something to be careful for, because many guys would think a girl wants to sleep with them just because she stares at them with interest.

[Tripz]

Well I make eye contact with everyone, I mean why not?

If I found someone attractive, I would look and smile, then keep on my way.

Notice I said that in past tense

[sikoo31]

hah alright.

[shalehandro]

I stare and start to tilt my head slowly.

I also open my eyes as wide as I can and if they still look into my eyes I give em a creepy smile

[sikoo31]

Lol I will do this one day.

[pezzonovante88]

With attractive girls, all of the above; it just depends on my mood and the situation, but I often make eye contact with them. I think I avoid looking at/making eye contact with unattractive girls.

[sikoo31]

Why do you avoid that?

[pezzonovante88]

I guess because I don't want them to think I like/am attracted to them.

[sikoo31]

Ah, ok.

[TedStar]

I give the prolonged (3+ seconds) eye contact and smile. then I slowly/reluctantly look away.

[sikoo31]

haha why'd you look away?

[TedStar]

coz I realize that I'm staring so I try to break the contact, but I really don't want to

[sikoo31]

Ohh ok.

[sOaNOn]

The perfect way to tell she's looking at in ORDER to have that eye contact with you is to smile! If she smiles back that means there really was something in the eye contact...also depends on the kind of smile. Girls can return an awkward smile, but when looking at a guy you're attracted to the smile would most likely be warm and inviting.

[Anonymous]

Ok it sounds like you only want her for sex -_- and for that reason, I'm not gonna answer your question

[sikoo31]

Yo its not like I'm gonna play her till I can f*** her, I'm just hoping that's all she wants too.

[Opinion Owner]

when a girl stares at a guy with interest, it's not because she wants to f*** him, it's because she finds him attractive and would probably want to get to know him. Why are you so sex-hungry anyway?

[sikoo31]

O yes, you can speak for ALL women, can't you? I wasn't even the one that voted you down.

Cause I'm f***in horny, why else?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm very sure majority of women will agree with me

[sikoo31]

Sure they will.

[swaggyperson]

Well I do the same thing with my crush...Whenever we walk past each other it's like nobody exists <3 And I would only make long eye contact if I like you ..

[SuperPerve]

If I'm drunk... TOO MUCH. hahaha

[sikoo31]

Haha its a drunk thing, so every drunk person probably does it, no biggie.

[SuperPerve]

Yeah.. I sudden;y get really bold and decide that staring at babes is the way to pick up!

[sikoo31]

haha well you're a girl, so, you're right.

If we guys did that, wouldn't work as well.

Unless it was me doing it, cause I'm a ninja.

[SuperPerve]

Ninja FTW!

[sikoo31]

Yeeyahh

[ShyAndPetiteAsian]

3-7 seconds of staring at the person face to face.

[sikoo31]

If what?

There's more than one Q here

[ShyAndPetiteAsian]

Ok,there's this guy whom I have a great crush on.The 1st time after he caught me staring face to face at him,we continued to stare at each other for 3 seconds.He suddenly smiled broadly & I panicked & turned my head swiftly to my right.

The 2nd time after he caught me staring face to face at him,we continued to stare at each other for 3 seconds again & then he put his head down.

The 3rd time we stared at each other,we stared for 7 seconds before he put his head down.

[ShyAndPetiteAsian]

Staring at him for 3 seconds means I am attracted & staring at him for 7 seconds means I want to be approached.

[sikoo31]

Hm, why didn't you just approach him?

[ShyAndPetiteAsian]

Haha,I think he is in his mid- twenties and I am in my late thirties.At first I am staring at him because I have never seen such a good looking guy in my life.It's just like staring at a cute doggie or baby or anything extremely attractive but this time it's a human.I only started to have a crush on him after he stared back which is something I have never expected.After the 3 staring incidents,he keeps smiling cutely and raising his eyebrows quickly at me whenever he sees me.All my fault.

[sikoo31]

so babies aren't human now?

no jk haha

yo, he obviously seems interested, if he's not moving in, you should.

[ShyAndPetiteAsian]

Oh,how muddle-headed I am to forget that babies are humans too.Haha.

And what is the meaning of 'yo'?

Wow,so you were actually thinking about sexual stuffs with this girl because of these prolonged eye contact with her?scary!

How long was your eye contact with her each time?

[sikoo31]

"yo" just means like, "hey", "what's up"(kind of), its like a transition word.

I think of sex a lot as is haha. And she wasn't giving me a "maybe you should take me out" kind of look, she was giving me this "I know you want me and maybe I want you too" kind of look, it just looked like she wanted to f***. First time was about 4 seconds. I was surprised as hell, its like the first time a girl doesn't just look away all quick like.

second time was about 5 seconds. third was only like 2 but

[sikoo31]

because she was walking behind a tree and we got interrupted. She actually seems like a nice girl too.

[Anonymous]

Update. I did.

[sikoo31]

haha yeah YOU did, you were the only one tho