I have a feeling he thinks I'm not into him when I am. He's a great guy..help?

So a guy asked me for my number, I gave it to him and a few minutes after we departed he texted me saying, "hey its ____ this is my number :)" I just simply texted back "k :)"

My question is, I have a feeling he thinks I'm not into him when I am. I'm just not so good at showing it. When he asked if I'd like to hangout I just got nervous & said yeah I guess that's cool. He kinda gave me a look and said that doesn't sound too good, but I didn't mean it like that... So my question is...HOW DO I GET OUT OF BEING SO NERVOUS? I know if the time comes if he were to ask me if he could take me out I'd probably come up with something to get out of it because I know I'd come across as boring because I'm too shy. AH. He's a great guy..help? :o

 

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  • You can text him first. Show that your interested in him. You must know that guys are shy and nervous too when they have to text a girl first.

    • ***sorry, wrong text field...I'm new and kinda dumb lol***

      lmao, you're worried if it's too soon? I'd be worrying if you're too late. 2 days of him asking and you are still hesitating. guys are the ones who have to feel like they're not being pushed around by the girl's attention. he did his ballsy move in asking for your number, at least give him a proper answer ASAP...he left himself out there, cmon now

    • Don't try to play any games. I did and it work for me. HOwever, I wish I didn't. Just do what you feel. Holding something back is only going to hurt you.

    • But would two days after him asking for my number, be too soon?

What Guys Said 2

  • Show that you're nervous. Bite your lip or something, blush. If he gets that idea then he'll adjust accordingly.

    • lmao, you're worried if it's too soon? I'd be worrying if you're too late. 2 days of him asking and you are still hesitating. guys are the ones who have to feel like they're not being pushed around by the girl's attention. he did his ballsy move in asking for your number, at least give him a proper answer ASAP...he left himself out there, cmon now

    • Cool thanks :)

  • Well try to be around him more. It makes you feel more comfortable. Then just take it from there. Usually when you are shy spending time with that person helps.

    • Do you think it would be out of line to text him first? Or should I wait it off?

What Girls Said 2

  • You should text him more often. :) I'm just like you 4yrs ago. I also had a crush on this guy(my boyfriend now) but I'm too shy to talk to him. But I ovecome my fears and I was the furst to make a move. What you should do is text him always and get to know him better.

  • Just text him already. It's obvious he's at least interested in getting to know you better. You're sabotaging yourself by giving him mixed signals due to your shyness. While I totally understand a person being shy, at some point you're just going to have to just bite the bullet and put yourself out there.

    Text him!

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