I've been dying for this guy to break the touch barrier. It feels great to feel him against my arm or shoulder and I always want to show him that I want him to break the touch barrier by being more deliberate but I've been failing at doing that. If a girl is comfortable with you, definitely start doing the little things first and read her body language to see if you should go further. When I'm comfortable with someone I love to be able to feel his arm and waist/back or for him to hold me somewhere. For me, it kind of sends this weird energy through me and I'm really happy. I like being physically close to my guy.
I can't tell you how that feels like apart from "fun" and "exciting" or "nice" - such evocative words of wisdom, I know. But I can suggest you don't break the touch barrier unless the girl does it herself. It's important to respect a gal's physical boundaries. Once she's loosened up a bit, SHE will touch you a little, just enough so to give you the signal "Hey mate. I'm all right with you. You can touch me back.". The more she touches you, the further you can go and so on. It's important not to rush the seduction process IMO.
Well.. if I like the guy.. than of course I would like it just as long as it wasn't inappropriate. BUT, I do get very nervous & shy.
But a guy that I barely knew grabbed me and forced his way to hold me while we were sitting down. (So.. of course you know not to do that). :p
Dude, just touch her like your mentally insane (no pun intended).
When I am drunk or when girls are drunk at the bar, all physical barriers are broken lol.
Break yourself into the habit by touching her on her arm or shoulder to get her attention. Simple.
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If I liked the guy, I'd love it and I'd gradually become more touchy feely with him, letting him know I'm comfortable with him. Unless this girl has given you signals that she likes you, you might not want to try it, as it may make her comfortable. If some random guy I'm not interested in started touching my leg for example, I'd just think he was slimey
If I like him, it's exciting. If I don't, I move away from his touch. No big deal. But sometimes with close friends girls can be cuddly. Just go for it. You can't lose anything from just putting a hand on her shoulder as a test.
If I liked him, it'd be electric. If not, I'd feel nothing. Probably the same for you right?
If I kind of felt that you might like me, the fact that you are breaking the touch barrier convinces me you do. It´s very nice and it gives sparks (which are always good).
I don't want my leg to be touched but the other places your listed are fine.
For the first time always have a reason to do it, don't like randomly touch me because that's a little creepy.
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