Not sure if my crush just wants to have sex ?

[ThatBiitchIsReal]

My crush is puerto rican & it's nothing for me, because I've dated outside my race before. I'm black. He's interested, but he told me he's never been with a black girl. However, he's made it clear that he wants to hook-up. My whole thing is that's cool. But is he just interested in having sex? Yea he bought me food, and gave me money before, but he's also flirted and slapped my ass before so that could not mean anything. I'm just confused at trying to analyze this guy. What message is he trying to give me and what do I do ?

[MrOracle]

The ONLY way to know the answer to this question (and it's a question that all girls will ask themselves throughout their dating careers) is to always require an official, committed relationship before you have sex, and even further, to wait at least a couple of weeks after you get into the relationship before you have sex.

Few guys who just want sex aren't going to go through "all that hassle" just to get sex; most of them will lose interest and fade away, or just break it off immediately. Guys who really want a relationship will be willing to commit and wait that short amount of time to help reassure you.

There really is no other way to tell. What IS certain is that if you have sex outside of a committed relationship, you are letting yourself be used for sex. And that might be okay for some people, but for many, it isn't, and you can't fool yourself into thinking it's anything more.

[Tamikaze]

Yes, if a guy makes it clear he wants to hook-up rather than makes it clear he wants to date you, that guy is all about casual sex. He is looking for a new flavor, something different. This is an experiment for him.

Why be cool about hook-ups? Why lower sex into some sort of recreational sport, and give it such little value. If you do that, the guy will be perfectly happy to follow your lead.

So, let this guy date you and see if this is going to lead to a relationship. Save sex for later. If all he is focused on is getting into your pants, that is about all you will be able to expect from him.

[Anonymous]

If this is the same guy from your most recent question...he's just interested in having sex.let him continue to buy your food but that's it lol.he's barely putting in any emotional effort and seems to not like you.keep taking his money if you want but don't be foolish enough to sleep with him.

[ThatBiitchIsReal]

amen

[IWillHelpIfYouHelpMe]

Do it girl you have the right!