I think its a good idea if its something small and with thought. This guy who liked me throughout high school (and I like him) was too shy to ask me out or tell me his feelings. He used to give me random presents and xmas/bday presents all four years. It gave me hope that he might like me. We're dating now and he still gives me random presents! hahaha. I'm not talking big stuff. He tried to give me really unique neat things that no one else would ever give me (and I did the same) ex. He made a cartoon of me, gave me a coconut (a day after I said I wanted to eat a coconut fruit salad), a game that I had mentioned I wanted to play, a hello kitty clock, rechargable batteries after I complained that my gameboy kept dying at crucial moments when I used to play (lol), etc.
Just something that shows you listened to her but something small. Its sweet but if its too big/expensive and you're too obvious it'll feel more like a bribe.
I say don't bother, if she ain't interested before I highly doubt she'll be interested after you give her the present. If I were you, I would save it for that special someone, who feels exactly the same about you :) If you HAVE to get her something, get her a small fruitcake or a pen, or a shirt that's too big :P I wouldn't bother anyway lol
No it'll make her feel uncomfortable, especially because she won't have gotten you anything. I'd suggest if your going to get her something anyways just find out her favorite kind of candybar, put a ribbon and little note saying "merry Christmas, from ______"
Absolutely not. If she's not interested, why are you wasting your money and emotions on a girl who will never reciprocate them? Delete her from your phone, don't hang out with her and start hitting on new girls who actually might like you back, instead of chasing after a lost cause. Drop this current girl and man up, and move on.
I voted no. When I was in HS, I bought this girl I liked a 10k gold bracelet for $50.00 at Wal-Mart. I was gonna give it to her in class but didn't because I found out she had a Boyfriend right around the same day. If I were to give it to her I would of looked liked an idiot.
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I once knew a kid in 8th grade who had a crush on one of the popular girls in class. For Valentine's day he spent $100.00 on a beautiful ruby pendant necklace. She accepted it but took the pendant off and just wore the chain. Ouch.
No, its best not to open a can of worms on this. If it's for secret santa then abide by the money restrictions and get her something that she would like or something generic like chocolate or a gift certificate to a mall.
Meh, kinda looks desperate to be honest no offense.It will put her in an uncomfortable situation because she probably won't get you anything and here you are giving her a gift. Plus it may seem like you're trying to buy your way into her heart
If you want to sure, but don't expect her to change her mind. And, she may even reject the gift and see it creepy and you as a creep for giving her a gift.
Why bother?
I think you should spend it on someone special who feels the same way about you.
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If you want to do it just to be nice and not guilt em or make em like you more or anything, why not? It's just a kind gesture. I buy my friends gifts too, I don't wanna f*** them lol.
If you're friends it could be a good idea!
But think small, and something thoughtful.
Likeeee, if you notice something about her that sticks out, like she religiously puts on lipgloss, get her some. If she has a hobby, a gift card to a craft store or something. :D
aside from the secret santa thing, if you guys are friends then there's nothing wrong with getting her a Christmas gift. if it's more of the admire from afar kinda thing, then it's a bad idea.
Wow, a lot of no's. I said yes - but it would have to be something really little! Like a cute, funny Christmas card and maybe like a $10 gift card to somewhere.
Then your not getting your crush something... Your getting the person you pulled something... Or were you asking if you should spend a lot on it? which I though Secret Santa had a price limit on it?
Why would you solidify your position in the friend zone? not too many dig into the friend zone for people to date. because your more valuable to them as "friends".
Don't do it unless you're friends and you would get her a gift anyway. It's not worth your time.
Nope, why waste the money unless you ade great friends and you're doing it as a friend thing rather than to impress.
I say no, absolutely not! That would only make her feel more uncomfortable, and may pressure her into trying to date you JUST BECAUSE HE BOUGHT HER SOMETHING!
it is counterintuitive, but if you do you are doing the opposite of what you want. I was very much like this "girl-repellant", if you really like/love her, give it time, behave like a man, not like something less. Just don't do it.
What do you mean you HAVE to getter something?
Are they going to fire you if you don't?
Not if it's a pursuing her thing. If it's a friend's gift sort of thing then alright but don't expect anything because you know nothing is changing.
U shouldn't get her a gift. She isn't interested in you so it will b awkward to give her a gift. At least I would feel that way if a guy I knew liked me and I wasn't interested and he knew it. I would probably b irritated 2! Take my advice so you won't make a fool out of your self because it will spread and everyone will make fun of you especially if she already has a bf
If she's not interested, there's no reason for you to go to the trouble...
Don't do it
You're going to be disappointed and hurt
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