Maybe he's busy?
I can't stress how important it is to, of want of a better way to put it, get your own life.
My partner is very busy. Working a part time job, 2 businesses, college and a band, we see each other once a week. We haven't seen each other for over 2 weeks.
Instead of getting upset about not seeing him (yes it gets to me), I'M DOING OTHER THINGS. I'm seeing friends, going to the gym, going to work, doing other things to keep myself busy, to benefit myself. Don't see it as time he's ignoring, see it as time he's giving you to improve your life.
And besides, if he sees it's upsetting you he may break up with you. However, if he sees you not reacting, it may worry him and he'll spend more time with you. Can go either way.
Does he give reasoning behind his not texting you or just say sorry for it?. Guys don't always text when we want them to. Maybe he isn't ready to get serious about you guys so he keeps a distance and doesn't think that he needs to text you and does not realize that it isn't fair to just ignore you. At the end of the day leave him be and if he does not come after you then the message is clear and he was never worth the time and you should not stress over it. Don't obsess over this one guy and hang out with your friends because if you show him you want to talk and get upset he kinda controls it and comes back with the 'I'M SORRY' and it could just become a recurring thing and it's not worth the time.
Because he has other things to do.
Mirror his behavior and ignore him as well. Replace the time you would spend thinking about/being with him and date other guys. You really should keep a roster of guys on your team so they can entertain you, this way you won't be caring if one guy ignores you and apologizes for it. Because believe me, that's exactly what he's doing! You're not the only girl so hopefully he isn't the only guy.
ok, if you love him I tink you hav to investigate on him by asking out on hiz frnz, as a boys feelings id tel you hiz ignorin you because may be he wants to jus use you or he got anothr girl... not to be sad bt be happy because may be he is not the one for u
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